What would you do if you were the son in this situation?

Would you pay the school loans?

  • Yes

    Votes: 3 50.0%

  • No

    Votes: 1 16.7%

  • Maybe, depending on whether or not we built relationships

    Votes: 2 33.3%
  • Total voters
    6
deadeye said:
Excellent summary.


Thing about forgiveness is, from my perspective, you should only forgive someone if they genuinely ask for forgiveness.........if they acknowledge what they did wrong.......if they show genuine remorse for what they did.........and if they make a sincere attempt to make amends for what they did.


If the brother is looking for all of those signs......and if all the sisters are doing is asking for money........and not showing any remorse or regret for how they treated their father...........then the brother shouldn't give them any money at all.
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IT depends on the offense to me. Sometimes when the person did the dirt, they are too ashamed to face the one they hurt.

In this thread, they were all kids when the divorce happened. He was 17 and the the sisters were I think 13 and 15. It seems like he really wants his family back and not have to live with hate in his heart. If he shows action, it is possible for the sisters to replicate the same energy.
 
loud-ninja said:
IT depends on the offense to me. Sometimes when the person did the dirt, they are too ashamed to face the one they hurt.

In this thread, they were all kids when the divorce happened. He was 17 and the the sisters were I think 13 and 15. It seems like he really wants his family back and not have to live with hate in his heart. If he shows action, it is possible for the sisters to replicate the same energy.
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See, reasonably sound argument.
 
loud-ninja said:
IT depends on the offense to me. Sometimes when the person did the dirt, they are too ashamed to face the one they hurt.

In this thread, they were all kids when the divorce happened. He was 17 and the the sisters were I think 13 and 15. It seems like he really wants his family back and not have to live with hate in his heart. If he shows action, it is possible for the sisters to replicate the same energy.
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Man fuck that, you know right from wrong when you're 13 and 15, it's not like they were the 2 and 3, you like Brad the step-dad, plus (this is my story and my thinking) the mom prolly got a big settlement in the divorce decree, got the house, the family van or some shit, she got a nice chunk of change in alimony or some shit. I refuse to believe that the mom aint walk away with nothing even though her ass cheated, They need to change this shit for real, and not to mention, the mom maybe been bad mouthing the dad in front of the daughters, indirectly, being disrespectful to the man and all prolly, Women be on that tip when they got a new man and new money.

Step-dad prolly was making more money, had to be, I don't think she's leaving the husband to be with a bum. Brad prolly drove a Benz or some shit.

Po man had to go back to a 1 bed apartment with the son, eating potatoes and beans, chicken steak chicken for dinner or whatever the whites eat for meals. Stove Topping shit lol

Fuck them sisters man, couldn't be me, I'd let them chicks know how wrong they did dad, make it sting, but telling it like it is.

Better for me to do than the most high lol.
 
Knock_Twice said:
Man fuck that, you know right from wrong when you're 13 and 15, it's not like they were the 2 and 3, you like Brad the step-dad, plus (this is my story and my thinking) the mom prolly got a big settlement in the divorce decree, got the house, the family van or some shit, she got a nice chunk of change in alimony or some shit. I refuse to believe that the mom aint walk away with nothing even though her ass cheated, They need to change this shit for real, and not to mention, the mom maybe been bad mouthing the dad in front of the daughters, indirectly, being disrespectful to the man and all prolly, Women be on that tip when they got a new man and new money.

Step-dad prolly was making more money, had to be, I don't think she's leaving the husband to be with a bum. Brad prolly drove a Benz or some shit.

Po man had to go back to a 1 bed apartment with the son, eating potatoes and beans, chicken steak chicken for dinner or whatever the whites eat for meals. Stove Topping shit lol

Fuck them sisters man, couldn't be me, I'd let them chicks know how wrong they did dad, make it sting, but telling it like it is.

Better for me to do than the most high lol.
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The other man was making more at the time. Bought the girls gifts. The father wasn't doing as well at that time. He started making money later in life.

You wouldn't be wrong in how you felt. Some people don't want to live with hate in their heart. He wouldn't be wrong in how the brother felt
 
loud-ninja said:
IT depends on the offense to me. Sometimes when the person did the dirt, they are too ashamed to face the one they hurt.

In this thread, they were all kids when the divorce happened. He was 17 and the the sisters were I think 13 and 15. It seems like he really wants his family back and not have to live with hate in his heart. If he shows action, it is possible for the sisters to replicate the same energy.
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I don't even know if he really cares that much about getting his family back. I think he just acknowledges that they are his sisters and feels like he should give them something regardless of what happened. He's just conflicted because he doesn't believe that's what his father would want.

He seems to have accepted that his sisters don't really want anything real from him besides help when he's able to offer it.
 
loud-ninja said:
IT depends on the offense to me. Sometimes when the person did the dirt, they are too ashamed to face the one they hurt.
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Possible, but.........from everything I've heard about this story........they don't seem like the type.

They only seem to care about the money.
 
Knock_Twice said:
Man fuck that, you know right from wrong when you're 13 and 15, it's not like they were the 2 and 3, you like Brad the step-dad, plus (this is my story and my thinking) the mom prolly got a big settlement in the divorce decree, got the house, the family van or some shit, she got a nice chunk of change in alimony or some shit. I refuse to believe that the mom aint walk away with nothing even though her ass cheated, They need to change this shit for real, and not to mention, the mom maybe been bad mouthing the dad in front of the daughters, indirectly, being disrespectful to the man and all prolly, Women be on that tip when they got a new man and new money.

Step-dad prolly was making more money, had to be, I don't think she's leaving the husband to be with a bum. Brad prolly drove a Benz or some shit.

Po man had to go back to a 1 bed apartment with the son, eating potatoes and beans, chicken steak chicken for dinner or whatever the whites eat for meals. Stove Topping shit lol

Fuck them sisters man, couldn't be me, I'd let them chicks know how wrong they did dad, make it sting, but telling it like it is.

Better for me to do than the most high lol.
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The sisters knew the mom was cheating and never said anything not even to their brother. Dude was buying them things so they kept quiet.

His father was devastated, turned to alcohol for some years then built himself back up. The daughters came a few years later asking him to pay for school, he said no. Along the way when the daughters had kids he tried to reconnect and heal the wounds, meet his grandkids but the daughters refused. The brother seen all that and he wants to forgive and be a family again but he's mad conflicted because of how he watched his dad suffer with all that over the years. And according to him he was a good dad, always present and showing love.

Thats why when you said "be a better man" I was like wtf. Sounds like his pops was a great father.

Imo he needs to sit down with them and get everything he's resentful about off his heart. Let their actions in response decide the rest.

Or just dead it and cease contact.

If he just gives them the money and they tell him to fuck off after he'll never forgive himself for not at least getting all that off his heart.
 
Sorry I was going off the cliff-notes from others 😂. I been conditioned to think another clickbait/engagement/ or rage post when videos are posted so I seldom press play or watch it till the end.
 
The Lonious Monk said:
I don't even know if he really cares that much about getting his family back. I think he just acknowledges that they are his sisters and feels like he should give them something regardless of what happened. He's just conflicted because he doesn't believe that's what his father would want.

He seems to have accepted that his sisters don't really want anything real from him besides help when he's able to offer it.
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He admitted he wants to dead the grudge but he is not there yet. He wants to follow the Christian ways of forgiveness.

If he had a better relationship with his sisters, it wouldnt be far-fetched to think he would give them the money.
 
Freeman said:
The sisters knew the mom was cheating and never said anything not even to their brother. Dude was buying them things so they kept quiet.

His father was devastated, turned to alcohol for some years then built himself back up. The daughters came a few years later asking him to pay for school, he said no. Along the way when the daughters had kids he tried to reconnect and heal the wounds, meet his grandkids but the daughters refused. The brother seen all that and he wants to forgive and be a family again but he's mad conflicted because of how he watched his dad suffer with all that over the years. And according to him he was a good dad, always present and showing love.

Thats why when you said "be a better man" I was like wtf. Sounds like his pops was a great father.

Imo he needs to sit down with them and get everything he's resentful about off his heart. Let their actions in response decide the rest.

Or just dead it and cease contact.

If he just gives them the money and they tell him to fuck off after he'll never forgive himself for not at least getting all that off his heart.
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I dont think I said be a better man...if I did in my post. I recant that and I couldn't care less about being a better man.
 
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Freeman said:
The sisters knew the mom was cheating and never said anything not even to their brother. Dude was buying them things so they kept quiet.

His father was devastated, turned to alcohol for some years then built himself back up. The daughters came a few years later asking him to pay for school, he said no. Along the way when the daughters had kids he tried to reconnect and heal the wounds, meet his grandkids but the daughters refused. The brother seen all that and he wants to forgive and be a family again but he's mad conflicted because of how he watched his dad suffer with all that over the years. And according to him he was a good dad, always present and showing love.

Thats why when you said "be a better man" I was like wtf. Sounds like his pops was a great father.

Imo he needs to sit down with them and get everything he's resentful about off his heart. Let their actions in response decide the rest.

Or just dead it and cease contact.

If he just gives them the money and they tell him to fuck off after he'll never forgive himself for not at least getting all that off his heart.
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Mannn fuck them sisters. Sounds like they entitled.

I respect parents and that aint cool. You only get 1 of each. Some may assholes and unfit but it's a way to make amends with the situation.

Bratty ass kids and the mom is the blame for it too.

I feel like she needs to be checked too..go live your life but at least make, and yes, make, force your daughters to have a relationship with their father until they get up outta your house...once they start paying their own bills around this bitch...you do as I say...and I say, yall taking yall asses over to your dad's house..both yall..pack yo shit for the weekend.

That mom aint shit either..dog ass.

She sat up and let that shit ride when they were teenagers. Most women do that shit...

Be mad at the man, but don't cut off relationships and vice versa..men, be mad at the wife but still allow the kid or kids to be with their mom.

Aint no choice if it was me...Carry yall asses over there to your dad for the weekend. But the mom didnt do that...so now we are here.

The mom aint shit...besides the cheating...she definitely is the master behind all of this shit happening

She fucked up the family...but we dont wanna say that because we wanna coddle women and their aint shit ways.

Pure evil
 
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