What would you do if you were the son in this situation?

Would you pay the school loans?

  • Yes

    Votes: 3 50.0%

  • No

    Votes: 1 16.7%

  • Maybe, depending on whether or not we built relationships

    Votes: 2 33.3%
  • Total voters
    6
deadeye said:
Excellent summary.


Thing about forgiveness is, from my perspective, you should only forgive someone if they genuinely ask for forgiveness.........if they acknowledge what they did wrong.......if they show genuine remorse for what they did.........and if they make a sincere attempt to make amends for what they did.


If the brother is looking for all of those signs......and if all the sisters are doing is asking for money........and not showing any remorse or regret for how they treated their father...........then the brother shouldn't give them any money at all.
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IT depends on the offense to me. Sometimes when the person did the dirt, they are too ashamed to face the one they hurt.

In this thread, they were all kids when the divorce happened. He was 17 and the the sisters were I think 13 and 15. It seems like he really wants his family back and not have to live with hate in his heart. If he shows action, it is possible for the sisters to replicate the same energy.
 
loud-ninja said:
IT depends on the offense to me. Sometimes when the person did the dirt, they are too ashamed to face the one they hurt.

In this thread, they were all kids when the divorce happened. He was 17 and the the sisters were I think 13 and 15. It seems like he really wants his family back and not have to live with hate in his heart. If he shows action, it is possible for the sisters to replicate the same energy.
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See, reasonably sound argument.
 
loud-ninja said:
IT depends on the offense to me. Sometimes when the person did the dirt, they are too ashamed to face the one they hurt.

In this thread, they were all kids when the divorce happened. He was 17 and the the sisters were I think 13 and 15. It seems like he really wants his family back and not have to live with hate in his heart. If he shows action, it is possible for the sisters to replicate the same energy.
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Man fuck that, you know right from wrong when you're 13 and 15, it's not like they were the 2 and 3, you like Brad the step-dad, plus (this is my story and my thinking) the mom prolly got a big settlement in the divorce decree, got the house, the family van or some shit, she got a nice chunk of change in alimony or some shit. I refuse to believe that the mom aint walk away with nothing even though her ass cheated, They need to change this shit for real, and not to mention, the mom maybe been bad mouthing the dad in front of the daughters, indirectly, being disrespectful to the man and all prolly, Women be on that tip when they got a new man and new money.

Step-dad prolly was making more money, had to be, I don't think she's leaving the husband to be with a bum. Brad prolly drove a Benz or some shit.

Po man had to go back to a 1 bed apartment with the son, eating potatoes and beans, chicken steak chicken for dinner or whatever the whites eat for meals. Stove Topping shit lol

Fuck them sisters man, couldn't be me, I'd let them chicks know how wrong they did dad, make it sting, but telling it like it is.

Better for me to do than the most high lol.
 
Knock_Twice said:
Man fuck that, you know right from wrong when you're 13 and 15, it's not like they were the 2 and 3, you like Brad the step-dad, plus (this is my story and my thinking) the mom prolly got a big settlement in the divorce decree, got the house, the family van or some shit, she got a nice chunk of change in alimony or some shit. I refuse to believe that the mom aint walk away with nothing even though her ass cheated, They need to change this shit for real, and not to mention, the mom maybe been bad mouthing the dad in front of the daughters, indirectly, being disrespectful to the man and all prolly, Women be on that tip when they got a new man and new money.

Step-dad prolly was making more money, had to be, I don't think she's leaving the husband to be with a bum. Brad prolly drove a Benz or some shit.

Po man had to go back to a 1 bed apartment with the son, eating potatoes and beans, chicken steak chicken for dinner or whatever the whites eat for meals. Stove Topping shit lol

Fuck them sisters man, couldn't be me, I'd let them chicks know how wrong they did dad, make it sting, but telling it like it is.

Better for me to do than the most high lol.
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The other man was making more at the time. Bought the girls gifts. The father wasn't doing as well at that time. He started making money later in life.

You wouldn't be wrong in how you felt. Some people don't want to live with hate in their heart. He wouldn't be wrong in how the brother felt
 
Knock_Twice said:
if I'm the sole beneficiary on the insurance policy or trust, fucked up as it may be, I'm not telling anybody the amount that was left to me.
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This ain’t even fucked up to me. For the same reason. It’s YOUR money. You’re not obligated to disclose the amount and shit. Nothing about that is slimy.
 
loud-ninja said:
IT depends on the offense to me. Sometimes when the person did the dirt, they are too ashamed to face the one they hurt.

In this thread, they were all kids when the divorce happened. He was 17 and the the sisters were I think 13 and 15. It seems like he really wants his family back and not have to live with hate in his heart. If he shows action, it is possible for the sisters to replicate the same energy.
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I don't even know if he really cares that much about getting his family back. I think he just acknowledges that they are his sisters and feels like he should give them something regardless of what happened. He's just conflicted because he doesn't believe that's what his father would want.

He seems to have accepted that his sisters don't really want anything real from him besides help when he's able to offer it.
 
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