Should kids be free to express themselves through style?

Nigga shut yo goofy ass up (first thing came to mind)


You muthafuckas kill me with this back to Africa free yo mind Envouge monkey ass shit.

Your little black boys that you're raising or will raise are under attack by the powers that be. They don't have the same luxury to walk around like little Timmy. I raise my son to be a black MAN not a feminist, feminine or soft. He is a musician and he expresses himself through his art and gifts.

But in no fucking way will he be allowed to walk around in my house self emasculated. He will feed the way I SEE FIT he will not be under the fantasy umbrella that wanting to dress like a clown is cool because so and so did it. Again not in my house, when he buy his own house again he do whatever the fuck he wants. Until then he will, learn to be a man, treat a woman like a queen, learn about financial success, be straight A student and how to navigate in a system that is focused on destroying you. So in other words I am going to raise him strictly and stearn on being a Man. There is no exceptions or excuses ever.

WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH HIM WEARING SKINNY JEANS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

are you listening to yourself right now?

YOUR SON WILL BE UNDER ATTACK NO MATTER WHAT TF HE HAS ON.

HES A BLACK MAN IN AN ANTI-BLACK SOCIETY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF YOUR SON WAS FEMININE HE WOULDNT BE ATTACKED BY WHITE PEOPLE,

HE WOULD BE ATTACKED BY OTHER BLACK PEOPLE IN HIS COMMUNITY WHO LIKE YOU, HAVE SOME VERY JACKED UP IDEAS WHEN IT COMES TO SEXUALITY AND GENDER.

BLAME YOUR FUCKING SELF.

good day sir.
 
WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH HIM WEARING SKINNY JEANS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

are you listening to yourself right now?

YOUR SON WILL BE UNDER ATTACK NO MATTER WHAT TF HE HAS ON.

HES A BLACK MAN IN AN ANTI-BLACK SOCIETY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF YOUR SON WAS FEMININE HE WOULDNT BE ATTACKED BY WHITE PEOPLE,

HE WOULD BE ATTACKED BY OTHER BLACK PEOPLE IN HIS COMMUNITY WHO LIKE YOU, HAVE SOME VERY JACKED UP IDEAS WHEN IT COMES TO SEXUALITY AND GENDER.

BLAME YOUR FUCKING SELF.

good day sir.
You make want to join the KKK I hate you niggas today
 
I'm so happy I don't buy into wack ideas on liberation and revolution
....cuz you niggas would lead me straight to the slaughterhouse!!!

christ.
 
But why are you buying into westernized ideas as a Black man?

haven't we been exploited enough?

at the very least we should work to control our images and narratives.

fuck it....

work to create our own ideas and concepts!!!!

or at least study and challenge the ideas and concepts we had before white interference.

I mean you out here saying because we live in America and had our entire identity stripped away from us, we have no control on what we choose to aspire and subscribe to.

thats crazy as hell.

Naw...

Thats not what I said at all love.

My point...is that our lives and views in Black AMERICAN culture is a gumbo of many influences...from our african roots and eurocentric ones as well.

had nothing to do with that statement you made. My view on masculinity is shaped and defined by AMERICAN culture. Is that flawed? Maybe, maybe not...but I am in no way...limiting what my son can do or achieve because I dont allow him to wear skinny jeans and have a certain haircut.
 
Naw...

Thats not what I said at all love.

My point...is that our lives and views in Black AMERICAN culture is a gumbo of many influences...from our african roots and eurocentric ones as well.

had nothing to do with that statement you made. My view on masculinity is shaped and defined by AMERICAN culture. Is that flawed? Maybe, maybe not...but I am in no way...limiting what my son can do or achieve because I dont allow him to wear skinny jeans and have a certain haircut.


ok so are you working to change your views on masculinity?

no.

my point still stands.

good day BDPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP
 
I'm so happy I don't buy into wack ideas on liberation and revolution
....cuz you niggas would lead me straight to the slaughterhouse!!!

christ.


But at least I would let you go in last.

200.webp
 
not allowing something is not the same as attacking it.

saying "i don't want my son dressed like that" is expressing your personal opinion...that is not an attack on anyone else....that is your preference...

the problem with the world is yall want us to like things we just don't like.....

why is it wrong to say you don't like something?

"I don't like men wearing skinny jeans, dying their hair, or doing things that i consider over feminine. My son will not be doing that"

there is no attack in that statement...just an expression of preferences....

if you press the argument, there may more than likely be some existing biases, but at the statement level it shouldn't be treated as an attack.....and that's a huge problem....because people only seem to stand behind their beliefs when you hit the most close to home......

the world can do what they want...as long as me and mines are good, i can care less.....

cuz i mean in cain's defense.....he's only speaking out on what his son and his household will indulge in....dude ain't say shit about the rest of the world....

if he was saying NOBODY should do that shit, and they ALL should kill themselves....then yea that's a bit intolerant.... but if he's only speaking out about him and his, that's not an attack or intolerance.....that's a line....

respect the line
 
ok so are you working to change your views on masculinity?

no.

my point still stands.

good day BDPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP


I cant wait till the day you and your son are walking through the girls section in target...
and he picks up a pink frill dress and says loud as fuck "mommy I want to wear dresses they are pretty, can you buy it for me?"

at that moment you will realize we aint "rigid, colonized mind niggas"
 
I guess it depends on what my kid wants to wear. I'm not a fan of skinny jeans, but I do buy a slim cut jean for my son. It's not super tight, but my kid doesn't look un-stylish.

Compromise...
 
larger tagent, this is why trump was allowed to win....

people for so long are being told, you can't say tis, you can't do that... you have to allow that...

censoring people's opinions on shit.....

this is how Donald Trump was allowed to win the country over......

what do

archie bunker
richard pryor
al bundy
stone cold steve austin
the rock
chris rock
dave chapelle

i could go on and on and on.......when people are constantly told that they can't speak out on something...the first person who doesn't give a fuck is looked at as a hero...and more times than not they go the extra mile because the reaction is so frustrated....

yall pushing people soooo hard to not speak out about this shit... you get outbursts like Cain's.....


now the whole thing starts to become the attack that would have never been provoked if you just allow people to have their space....

like i'd be a fool to think racism doesn't exist.... but i much rather yall keep it bottled up and to yourself than to be all out in the fucking open with it....

which is gonna end up happening very soon....i'm sure of it
 
I cant wait till the day you and your son are walking through the girls section in target...
and he picks up a pink frill dress and says loud as fuck "mommy I want to wear dresses they are pretty, can you buy it for me?"

at that moment you will realize we aint "rigid, colonized mind niggas"


If you teach your sons about sex, sexuality and gender expression early on these hypothetical situations----- like the one you just gave
wont exist.
 
larger tagent, this is why trump was allowed to win....

people for so long are being told, you can't say tis, you can't do that... you have to allow that...

censoring people's opinions on shit.....

this is how Donald Trump was allowed to win the country over......

what do

archie bunker
richard pryor
al bundy
stone cold steve austin
the rock
chris rock
dave chapelle

i could go on and on and on.......when people are constantly told that they can't speak out on something...the first person who doesn't give a fuck is looked at as a hero...and more times than not they go the extra mile because the reaction is so frustrated....

yall pushing people soooo hard to not speak out about this shit... you get outbursts like Cain's.....


now the whole thing starts to become the attack that would have never been provoked if you just allow people to have their space....

like i'd be a fool to think racism doesn't exist.... but i much rather yall keep it bottled up and to yourself than to be all out in the fucking open with it....

which is gonna end up happening very soon....i'm sure of it


Trump won because of racial backlash.
there is nothing america couldve done to prevent a trump presidency.
it falls right in-line with history.

Him winning has nothing to do with censorship DU.

It has to do with White nationalism and white folks banning together to protect these institutions that have been killing Black and Brown folks for years

whits folks been saying headass, derogatory shit *OUTLOUD* for centuries.

stop.
this is a false equivalency and a dangerous one at that sir.
 
Trump won because of racial backlash.
there is nothing america could have done to prevent a trump presidency.
it falls right in-line with history.

Him winning has nothing to do with censorship DU.

It has to do with White nationalism and white folks banning together to protect these institutions that have been killing Black and Brown folks for years

whits folks been saying headass, derogatory shit *OUTLOUD* for centuries.

stop.
this is a false equivalency and a dangerous one at that sir.


don't think the soup has just one ingredient....
:think:

"trump says what everybody is thinking" was an EXTREMELY popular phrase that was heavily circulated throughout the media the entire campaign

many people who didn't even agree with trump were buying into that shit just off of principal...ths shit gets deeper.....

you not gonna change people views on things Race...i'm sorry, you're just no.... but what you will do is make people not wanna discuss their views in fear of persecution.....

that's why perceived anonymous boards like this flourish
 
don't think the soup has just one ingredient....
:think:

"trump says what everybody is thinking" was an EXTREMELY popular phrase that was heavily circulated throughout the media the entire campaign

many people who didn't even agree with trump were buying into that shit just off of principal...ths shit gets deeper.....

you not gonna change people views on things Race...i'm sorry, you're just no.... but what you will do is make people not wanna discuss their views in fear of persecution.....

that's why perceived anonymous boards like this flourish


so *people* like me are the cause of white people voting for Trump????


"Trump says whats everybody is thinking" was a popular phrase because America is grossly ignorant.

we have a culture of ignorance.

that's why it was popular.

nothing more, nothing less.

and I think we need to be clear and concise here on why he won.

it was the electoral college that gave us a trump victory.

a century year old institution used for the sole purpose of railroading Black folks after they were given the right to vote.
 
My kid 5 so she mostly want to wear cute and pretty stuff i let her mom handle the hair. When she gets older and cares about that stuff id pretty much let her rock anything that isnt too grown or sexy. Now if she develops at a young age then ill talk with her mom about it so i know what to get. World is harsh on black girls and clothes.
 
so *people* like me are the cause of white people voting for Trump????


"Trump says whats everybody is thinking" was a popular phrase because America is grossly ignorant.

we have a culture of ignorance.

that's why it was popular.

nothing more, nothing less.

and I think we need to be clear and concise here on why he won.

it was the electoral college that gave us a trump victory.

a century year old institution used for the sole purpose of railroading Black folks after they were given the right to vote.


my point is this...

just like you request people to be tolerant of your opinions, you have to be tolerant of others....everybody ain't gonna like certain shit.....and people who are asking for tolerance seem to have 0 tolerance for those who feel differently....it's by definition counterproductive of the entire discussion.....

it's okay for people to not like certain shit....and it's becoming dangerously destructive when people refuse to acknowledge that

the "gay agenda" is very real, and it feels as if it's politically incorrect to have any opinions that are less than 100% supportive of anything lgbtq..

like last night.... for absolutely no reason whatsoever they made two straight highly popular and likable characters become gay lovers on a tv show in a dream sequence....it was never explained, expounded on, nothing...in fact the joke was a challenge...

"yea we're both her father's....you gotta problem with that?"

i was dumbfounded.....land if i even ask why.....i'd be attacked for it....

like it's considered offensive to be uncomfortable.....shit's just getting unrealistic...and when you start allowing unrealistic shit as the norm....prepare for a shitstorm
 
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