To me, this shit is inherently selfish. All the data shows that most kids without father suffer in some way or another. Granted some of that is tied to the increased likelihood of the family being impoverished without a father. Granted that's not really going to be an issue for Eboni. Not all of it can be explained away by lack of money though. Increased likelihood for psychological problems, hypersexuality, and drug abuse have nothing to do with how much money the family has. Even something like increased likelihood to be arrested isn't always tied to socioeconomic background.
What's funny to me is that a tell tale sign of whether or not a person is going to be a good parent or not is their willingness to sacrifice for the good of others. If you're going into parenthood saying "I don't really care how this will impact my future child, I'm doing it for me" you're already starting out on a bad foot.
