SOME ABW Men apparently diss black women: thread about passport bros again

[SeaSnake]

That's what you get for jumping in convos where you weren't addressed. Someone else said it was the same thing on both sides. I said women go a little harder because they are given platforms for criticizing men that aren't given in reverse. I gave examples, and all you two dudes have done is claim that I ignore the bad acts from black men which I've already acknowledged. All this back and forth want even necessary. If you disagree you could have said that and left it at that or posted counterexamples. You didn't. You've just whined because I've pointed out that you're doing the same shit you always do.

I said on the first post that you tagged me in we just not going to agree nigga. Again I said calling women bitches and tricks for 30 years in my eyes is worse than some vlog saying we ain’t shit. Are they both bad yes.


Again tell me what answer you want me to say to satisfy you that I haven’t already said?

 

[SeaSnake]

You say we can critique women, but then everytime we do you come in claiming we're exaggerating and ignoring what men do. That sounds like you don't really believe women can be criticized. You got it though.

Sounds like you just be saying shit. Literally half of abw critique is based in nonsense. Again a reason we have less than 5 women posters.

 

[SeaSnake]

Lol point out where I gave my opinion and started it was fact. I've said my statements were my opinion and gave the reasoning behind that opinion. You two got triggered and accused me of ignoring shit over and over. Y'all got it though. This exchange isn't interesting enough to continue.

Lol you were on this exchange all day now you’re not interested. Just say you tired it’s cool.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

I said on the first post that you tagged me in we just not going to agree nigga. Again I said calling women bitches and tricks for 30 years in my eyes is worse than some vlog saying we ain’t shit. Are they both bad yes.


Again tell me what answer you want me to say to satisfy you that I haven’t already said?

Lol Yes, the sum total of misogyny in Hip Hop is worse than a single vlogger male bashing. Congrats on making a point that has nothing to do with anything.

 

[SeaSnake]

Lol Yes, the sum total of misogyny in Hip Hop is worse than a single vlogger male bashing. Congrats on making a point that has nothing to do with anything.

You’re welcome bro

 

[Mister B.]

Like I said…Matrix.

Some of y'all will simply never unplug.

 

[Tayboo]

Can women do any wrong in some of you niggas eyes? Damn

The diverters and their problematic rhetoric have been mentioned in this thread multiple times....

 

[Dwayne]

The diverters and their problematic rhetoric have been mentioned in this thread multiple times....

I’m talking about how some on here jump on men head at every chance with post after post after post

But

Will say a few words MAYBE here and there about women.




I’m not the only one that sees it and numerous poster have called it dozens of times

 

[Tayboo]

I’m talking about how some on here jump on men head at every chance with post after post after post

But

Will say a few words MAYBE here and there about women.




I’m not the only one that sees it and numerous poster have called it dozens of times

Well the OP is about the passport bros that's who the focus of discussion should be on.

 

[SneakDZA]

I’m talking about how some on here jump on men head at every chance with post after post after post

But

Will say a few words MAYBE here and there about women.




I’m not the only one that sees it and numerous poster have called it dozens of times

Are you saying you're feeling persecuted as a man on a site that's like 90% men?

You might be on some snowflake shit my guy.

 

[Dwayne]

Are you saying you're feeling persecuted as a man on a site that's like 90% men?

You might be on some snowflake shit my guy.

And you would be wrong.

Not sure why seeing an observation from posters make you even think that

But that’s how you might feel about something.

 

[Dwayne]

Well the OP is about the passport bros that's who the focus of discussion should be on.

Thread evolved and multiple conversations are going on

 

[Bobjones]

Like I said…Matrix.

Some of y'all will simply never unplug.

What in the Andrew Tate kind of post is this.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Well the OP is about the passport bros that's who the focus of discussion should be on.

Am I wrong or wasn't there a consensus reached on them a while ago? If they want to go out an find a non-Black American wife, nobody should care, they just shouldn't be coming back and trashing Black American women to justify it.

 

[Bobjones]

I’m talking about how some on here jump on men head at every chance with post after post after post

But

Will say a few words MAYBE here and there about women.




I’m not the only one that sees it and numerous poster have called it dozens of times

If that really is the case (not going through the entirety of this long ass thread) it's because men hold the reigns of power in society, for the most part. Logically, there's going to be a hell of a lot more to complain about and find fault with when discussing the intricacies of societies that have largely been shaped and controlled by men. I'm speaking generally btw, not about the dating scene specifically.

 

[SneakDZA]

If that really is the case (not going through the entirety of this long ass thread) it's because men hold the reigns of power in society, for the most part. Logically, there's going to be a hell of a lot more to complain about and find fault with when discussing the intricacies of societies that have largely been shaped and controlled by men. I'm speaking generally btw, not about the dating scene specifically.

Don't worry my non pussy gettin brother I got you... everything you said still applies to "the dating scene"

These broads used to have to come with a dowry and a hymen check (and some still do). And niggas want to act brand new about how maybe it's ok to advocate for taking women at face value when they express their grievances.

 

[SeaSnake]

Don't worry my non pussy gettin brother I got you... everything you said still applies to "the dating scene"

These broads used to have to come with a dowry and a hymen check (and some still do). And niggas want to act brand new about how maybe it's ok to advocate for taking women at face value when they express their grievances.

These niggas don’t study history will maybe monk but that nigga just likes to argue. We on a site where niggas don’t like other blacks, we have no women hardly posting for a reason. It’s me you and blackrain on side and like 4 on the other side. Niggas can’t admit they just like to argue.

 

[Bobjones]

Don't worry my non pussy gettin brother I got you... everything you said still applies to "the dating scene"

Don't get me wrong, I know it extends to relationships as well. It's an all enveloping patriarchy. Like if we're looking at either side of the spectrum on gender activism (feminists vs men's rights activists) it seems to me like the women - whether their particular approach/rhetoric is effective or not - are simply fighting for respect and dignity, while the men are fighting for the allowance to hold some kind of dominion over them in a throwback to more traditionalist roles. I see this BS a lot online from so called alpha males and I worry it's poisoning the minds of youth.

 

[Mister B.]

What in the Andrew Tate kind of post is this.

As much of an asshole he is, he's not entirely wrong on his viewpoints.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Don't worry my non pussy gettin brother I got you... everything you said still applies to "the dating scene"

These broads used to have to come with a dowry and a hymen check (and some still do). And niggas want to act brand new about how maybe it's ok to advocate for taking women at face value when they express their grievances.

Why do ya'll always do shit like this? We'll be having a directed conversation about particular issues, and ya'll will bring up extreme examples that nobody is ok with. I haven't read every opinion expressed in this topic, so I might be going on a ledge, but I don't think anyone here is ok with dowries and hymen checks. Let's stay away from the red herrings and keep the discussion on point.

The reason a lot of dudes have a problem with taking women at face value is because frankly a lot of women just spread misinformation. Black women have played a part in pushing the deadbeat dad narrative. The actual data shows that black men are the most involved with their kids. Black women have played a part in the "black men only want white women" narrative. The actual data shows that the majority of black men marry black women. Black women have a played a part ins spreading the "black men just want to be players" narrative. The actual data shows that black men get married earlier and at a higher rate than black women. So yeah, not every dude is just going to shake his head and agree with everything women and their white knights say when we know for a fact that a lot of what they say is just wrong. The Eboni Williams debacle is a good example. The chick said some crazy shit, then doubled down on it, then tried to make her comments bigger than they were and used badly interpreted stats to do it. When a chick like that says she's single because she can't find a good black man on her level, are we really supposed to take her at face value?

To be fair, the misinformation absolutely goes both ways, so this isn't just a black woman thing. It's a society thing. There's a lot of information flowing out there, and people have a tendency to just take anything reinforces their own worldview and run with it. We all are guilty of that.