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SOME ABW Men apparently diss black women: thread about passport bros again

Chicity said:
Man, you spent ya first 2 weeks looking up, at, and for smut 😐

And the first venture out into this new land and you wanna talk down on American Black Women and what they can improve on😐

But you want me to believe you some kinda Marcus Garvey IRL😐

Nigga please
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Came for the smut, couldn't find sh.
Figured I'd see what else this forum is famous for.

Turns out it's also famous for its mods who believe that anyone needs to prove anything to them.
You're a forum mod lol. Humble yourself. No reasonable being has any incentive to lie on an anonymous forum. Contribute to the discussion or keep it moving. Or should I not respond because you're gonna get in your feelings and ban me or something? :mybad:
 
ymwito said:
Came for the smut, couldn't find sh.
Figured I'd see what else this forum is famous for.

Turns out it's also famous for its mods who believe that anyone needs to prove anything to them.
You're a forum mod lol. Humble yourself. No reasonable being has any incentive to lie on an anonymous forum. Contribute to the discussion or keep it moving. Or should I not respond because you're gonna get in your feelings and ban me or something? :mybad:
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Idc Idc
 
RandomNegro said:
It’s because while not interested, they do have a purpose. Their purpose is to help those women feel better about themselves. Those are the men that leave heart eyes on their photos, offer to drive them somewhere, offer to put together a bookshelf, offer to pick up things that are too heavy for them and move it from one place in her apartment to the next. They don’t respect them enough to want to be with them, but don’t want them to remove themselves from your lives because they enjoy the extra attention. Like it’s been stayed? It doesn’t make any sense why they’re so mad.
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It makes total sense: if the passport bros leave, these women will run out of options. These women consider the passport bros kind of men to be second tiers, plan Bs, worst case scenarios for long term relationships. With these guys gone, they now realize that they have to face the fact that they do not even qualify to get a committed relationship out of the men that they consider to be first tier.

The average man divesting forces the average woman to face the possibility of true loneliness. That's a scary sight.
 
konceptjones said:
I'm going to counter with this:

Does the female viewpoint even matter??? This is about these few men finding what they want in life: Why does there need to be an opposing viewpoint to that? What's there to oppose?

Hear me out on this: I mentioned that show To Rome for Love on Bravo, where fairly well off Black American women claimed they couldn't find a suitable mate here in the States and, thus, went to Rome to find love. The show was fairly well received by Black women here in the States. The Black American male's viewpoint on this show never mattered or was ever considered. This was a show about those women finding what they wanted in life, what were we to oppose??? We all know there were men here that could have ticked off every box of theirs, but they decided to find it elsewhere. Same for these Passport niggas; we know there were women here in the US that could have ticked off all of their boxes, but they chose to go elsewhere.

And before you get into all the "well they're taking shots at Black women..." stuff: don't you think having a whole TV show about Black women saying they couldn't find a suitable man amongst the brothas here is taking cannon shots at us???
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never heard of that show but I mean it’s bravo
 


This channel is not even about this topic, but notice this guy’s wife start at the 6:30 mark. You can skim through the whole video they build this whole home ground up. They got a whole channel of them building homes and spaces with their own hands TOGETHER like it’s normal. Lol. I’m done. His wife is as beautiful as she is functional and if my relationship isn’t as functional as this couple here then I don’t want it.
 
16bitSheez said:


This channel is not even about this topic, but notice this guy’s wife start at the 6:30 mark. You can skim through the whole video they build this whole home ground up. They got a whole channel of them building homes and spaces with their own hands TOGETHER like it’s normal. Lol. I’m done. His wife is as beautiful as she is functional and if my relationship isn’t as functional as this couple here then I don’t want it.
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Bro finish what you started:icu:

I’ll help: “if I as a black man don’t manage to find that in my community, I’m easily getting it outside of my community.”

It’s okay. I’d put my peace before the urge to contribute to my community too. It’s not like my contribution would really help the community, nor is it that the community wants to be helped anyway.
I personally have a preference for black women. But that preference only makes for like 1 box out of 10 that need to be ticked.

Black women have a tactical advantage in most black men’s eyes. Whether they want to use it is their choice.
 
ymwito said:
Bro finish what you started:icu:

I’ll help: “if I as a black man don’t manage to find that in my community, I’m easily getting it outside of my community.”

It’s okay. I’d put my peace before the urge to contribute to my community too. It’s not like my contribution would really help the community, nor is it that the community wants to be helped anyway.
I personally have a preference for black women. But that preference only makes for like 1 box out of 10 that need to be ticked.

Black women have a tactical advantage in most black men’s eyes. Whether they want to use it is their choice.
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Lol. Honestly that’s not really where I was going, but nah I still agree with everything you mentioned. I care most about how our moral and cultural values line up, and though I prefer black women most of all I wouldn’t count it as a loss if I ended up having to partner with someone outside of that preference in the slightest granted I’m still physically attracted to her. But it’s so many flavors of black women I doubt that’ll happen. I could be wrong though.
 
First half of the video is an understandable conversation even tho I ont want cp business on primetime tv.

The second part is dumb af.

They don't have the same issues so an inverse racially of that argument doesn't make sense. Matter of fact it would sound racist af coming from a white doctor but even so it would still be his prerogative.
 
Here's a clip of one of the passport dudes saying that they don't have any animosity or hatred towards black women.


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Hope this puts that false narrative to rest.
 
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