SOME ABW Men apparently diss black women: thread about passport bros again

[IceManKamReturns]

Good and bad come in all women. Sometimes ppl get burned when they’re younger and never come back from it. Permanent defense mechanic to shit on something that did you “wrong”

Ppl getting curved in middle school by a girl named Jade and never recuperate

 

[SeaSnake]

Im part of a black hiking group in Charlotte. Didnt know that was seen as an anomaly.

Lol

 

[mike030270]

Online apps/social media has definitely thrown a monkey wrench in how we meet and date. Both men and women have gotten lazy cause folks feel like they just get online and slide in a DM. Last time I went out to a bar, everyone was huddled in their groups looking at each other.

Apps advertise that you can find your match based off some filters but it's definitely not a perfect system lol

 

[The Lonious Monk]

I will never understand this shit.
I've met black people who'll have one bad experience with a black partner and write off the whole race.

Ask em if it's been all peachy keen with dating outside the race the answer is No but they're somehow able to overlook the bad experience in dating outside and not write off said race.

Shit doesn't compute

I don't get it either bro. One of my boys is an interesting case. He used to be a super playa and only dealt with black women. He just gave chicks from other races a try after his divorce. He says he can't go back to black women because he feels like he always has to play a role for black women but other women are quicker to accept him for who he is. I was kinda surprised to hear that from him because he's one of those dudes that pretty much gets whatever chick he wants. I don't know. It seems crazy, but I believe that's how he sincerely feels.

Yeah they got have some intentions. If they want a more traditional female you think how that chick would be spending her time. Yeah she might go out and twerk with her girls a weekend here or there. But she also might really be into gardening and volunteers at urban farms.

I got into the vegan lifestyle and meet brother's at local farms and community events.


Like what they gonna do with these women when they get with them? Go to bars and lounges and fuck all the time?
People are multi faceted and in my experience when I met people doing things like I described, I found more success.

But I also had to look at and understand what I wanted. For example I have been with a super traditional black man, didn't want me to work, had a certain way we were to communicate with each other. I have also been with men who were less controlling...so those experiences help me learn what I want. I have dated black men from all different walks of life and black men not from America. I was in the military and traveled alot for work and I think traveling is important.

You live in Hawaii? Like permanently I have never been but always wanted to go. They have beautiful hiking trails.

Dope insight. Them dudes have to start thinking outside of the box I guess.

I don't live in Hawaii. I've just had a couple two week trips there. I would definitely live there if it wasn't so expensive.

Online apps/social media has definitely thrown a monkey wrench in how we meet and date. Both men and women have gotten lazy cause folks feel like they just get online and slide in a DM. Last time I went out to a bar, everyone was huddled in their groups looking at each other.

Lol I'd have no shot in today's dating world. I don't have the patience for it. Ironically, I've had way more women approach me after I got married than I had before. It's crazy.

 

[Tayboo]

Apps advertise that you can find your match based off some filters but it's definitely not a perfect system lol

The system is horrid and it gives this false sense for some that there is this endless supply of potential dates.

 

[Big Lurko]

yea right.

black folks in America don’t hike. Don’t try and play it off as something that black folks do

Yikes! Tell me more of what black people dont do?

 

[TheMadLionsFan]

Nah this ain’t no alt account alot of black man feel the exact way I feel it’s a reason why all the black athletes date white women why you pretending that this the first time you hearing something like this

I don't believe black women are above criticism (like some on this site) but this shit here is trash

 

[BLACK GUERILLA FAMILY]

I don't believe black women are above criticism (like some on this site) but this shit here is trash

it’s the truth most black athletes don’t date black women and went viral not to long ago of a black women saying black athletes / men didnt look her way in college and went straight for the snow bunny. I ain’t saying I agree with that shit I’m saying it’s a reason for it that everybody in here pretends they don’t know why.

 

[BlackRain]

It's also funny to see the earlier back and forth about not shitting on Black men while actively having a poster shitting on both Black men and Black women just getting engagement with little pushback in the same thread.

 

[Infamous114]

Strange how these accounts originate from Charlotte.

 

[Dwayne]

Yikes! Tell me more of what black people dont do?

I definitely can.

We don’t hike. Maybe a select few but you not going to sit up on the internet and lie like black Americans hiking is something we normally do

 

[BountyHunterRo]

I definitely can.

We don’t hike. Maybe a select few but you not going to sit up on the internet and lie like black Americans hiking is something we normally do

Do we all know how to swim? I do

 

[Shenco]

Do we all know how to swim? I do

We don’t swim. Maybe a select few but you not going to sit up on the internet and lie like black Americans swimming is something we normally do

Seems like black people don't do a lot of things unless it involves crime, sports, or the entertainment industry. It's almost like we're monolithic or something

 

[konceptjones]

Im part of a black hiking group in Charlotte. Didnt know that was seen as an anomaly.

That's 'cause generally speaking Black Folks + The Wilderness Where Wild Man Killing Animals Live = Hell to the nawl.

Y'all got bears, cougars, and coyotes in the wilderness surrounding Charlotte. That's the trifecta of "oh hell nawl nigga" right there.

 

[Dwayne]

That's 'cause generally speaking Black Folks + The Wilderness Where Wild Man Killing Animals Live = Hell to the nawl.

Y'all got bears, cougars, and coyotes in the wilderness surrounding Charlotte. That's the trifecta of "oh hell nawl nigga" right there.

The term “that’s white people shit” does exist

Yea, a select few my do something but it’s not associated with blacks folks

 

[BLACK GUERILLA FAMILY]

The term “that’s white people shit” does exist

Yea, a select few my do something but it’s not associated with blacks folks

You can’t tell these niggas nothing ole boy in here said being in the hood isn’t the reason black people commit more crime than white people. MOST black people cant swim and MOST black people don’t hike and they in here playing pretend.

 

[konceptjones]

The term “that’s white people shit” does exist

Yea, a select few my do something but it’s not associated with blacks folks

I know exactly one Black person that hikes and camps in the wilderness. She's in a big ass group of people that go hiking, camping 3-4 times a year, kayaking, tubing, etc. She's also one of 3 or 4 Black folks in that entire group of something like 40-50 people.

I said I might go with her once, but if I do I'm coming strapped 'cause I ain't playin' games in bear country.

 

[GNS]

We don’t swim. Maybe a select few but you not going to sit up on the internet and lie like black Americans swimming is something we normally do

Seems like black people don't do a lot of things unless it involves crime, sports, or the entertainment industry. It's almost like we're monolithic or something

They lucky I wasn't there.
Would've been swagging on em

 

[Word....Life]

Some wild generalizations goin’ on in here lol

 

[Big_Ev]

Some wild generalizations goin’ on in here lol

After a while, you have to step away from these types of conversations.