COMMUNITY Right or Wrong?

[Duwop]

Fam she alluded to the kid always asking and the pops bringing him McDs

I doubt that the pops knows they in there starving McDs the go to place for kids so he prolly just calls the pops like I want McDs and pops brings it

So you're having doubts now....

You really doubt he knew his child was living in a house with no food?

So you really ready to run the risk of your child sending you to McDonald's cuz they ain't like what was on the menu wherever they was at.... Cuz kids will do that shit... That's why parents have to communicate.

All I'm saying is text the moms first.. That alleviate all that bull shit they recorded

 

[Inori]

Where are yall getting this "he called the dad for food" thing from?

The video starts off with her saying every day he brings one meal for the child. Seems like a regular agreed upon thing that he brings their kid some lunch everyday.

She seems to take issue with the fact that every day he only brings it for one child instead of all of them.

Did I miss something?

 

[Duwop]

So now you blaming the kid for getting the food, where you get that the kid called to get some food. You just made up a whole other scenario

McDonald's is a kids response to hunger. I'm not faulting the kid.
But an adult needs to have a better response.... And that involves finding what is going on with the mom. I need to know why my kid is calling me hungry. If they live with you, you should be feeding them. Cuz if they with me they better not be calling you for no damn McDonald's.

As a parent. I would be HIGHLY pissed at them calling my wife for McDonald's. Because it would be a bullshit call. My child would never be in an environment where there is no food.


My point is this. The father should have that same expectation for the mother. He should have no doubt whatsoever that his child is fed and fed often. He should be so confident of that... That he would be concerned with them reaching out to them about being hungry. When the mom is right there.

Like I need that immediate conversation. I'm not going to McDonald's. I need to know why the fuck is my child with you if they can't go to you when they hungry. Like I'm not dropping off no damn happy meal and leaving my child with someone who can't feed them.

I'm way more mad than homie about a whole nother issues I see y'all niggaz don't even consider.

And I don't feel wrong for being different... But that shit is savage y'all don't see the real issues here

 

[Based Dave 96]

there is no crime in that man feeding his child.... if the father bought his child Jordans she will be bitching about how her other kid's should have got the same...... i bet all 4 of her kids got different fathers.

 

[Duwop]

Where are yall getting this "he called the dad for food" thing from?

The video starts off with her saying every day he brings one meal for the child. Seems like a regular agreed upon thing that he brings their kid some lunch everyday.

She seems to take issue with the fact that every day he only brings it for one child instead of all of them.

Did I miss something?

See.... This where me being overly optimistic is making it even worse. I ain't watching the shit again...

But I'm pretty sure the nigga said something about his kid wanting the McDonald's.... So I optimistically connected that to it being a request.

But I didn't want to pessimistically think that we the kids only meal every day, and the dad never picked up on it until it was thrown in his face....

Cuz that's the only implication I can get out of that....I feel like you gotta Know if that's all your kids is eating

 

[Duwop]

there is no crime in that man feeding his child.... if the father bought his child Jordans she will be bitching about how her other kid's should have got the same...... i bet all 4 of her kids got different fathers.

You can go without Jordans..... You can't go without food

 

[Based Dave 96]

You can go without Jordans..... You can't go without food

the point i'm making is that what ever the father bring for his child the bm will complain if he don't bring 4..... that's a fucked up attitude for her to have.

 

[Duwop]

the point i'm making is that what ever the father bring for his child the bm will complain if he don't bring 4..... that's a fucked up attitude for her to have.

That's not what it is though....

Homie dropping off a happy meal like that's what's up...

And his response to her wilding is send my kid out here...

And the food for thrown cuz he handed it to her...

He went on the defensive instead of the inquisitive.....

Why is this an issue?
Why do you need me to feed all your kids?
Why your bringing up stamps?
Are you telling me that besides this... My kid has no food?

Like I couldn't have let her off that easy. Like she was wild off. The mom was WILDING. I couldn't imagine....


But my response..... My response is not like that.

I can't

 

[BlackRain]

Lmao at taking care of YOUR kid making you an aint shit parent

Can you really say he's taking care of his kid if he's in a home with no food?

 

[DOS_patos]

Your kid calls because they're hungry and there's no discussion?

Crazy

The kid may just don’t know how to ask for his dad to come see him and being hungry sparks a fire underneath most parents.
But I could have swore she said he did that before…..which leads to one of two things….

either bruh May not ain’t really about the best for the child cuz he still there if he’s not trying to get him out that situation
Or
It’s obvious he can’t talk to her because of how she just reacted. So how you talking to her?

sorry but custody away from her is the only solution. My kid gotta wait days for a proper meal cuz her stamps ain’t come yet?

what’s to talk about if we ain’t talking to a judge?

 

[Dwayne]

Can you really say he's taking care of his kid if he's in a home with no food?

We assume but I don’t believe her for that to be true.

any women that would deny her child food by throwing it away is not to be believed when it comes to food issues.

They wasn’t home anyways.

 

[Duwop]

Like I don't understand a condition where this is sufficient without communication.

Like why is homie bringing the kid food to drop off?

A happy meal.

If his kid is with her. He should be good.. If you dropping by..... Not no damn happy meal.

But her rebuttal would have raised too many flags.... Way too many

 

[Dwayne]

The pivot to add blame to the man instead of this falling on the women is astonishing.

Y’all do know women can be bad parents without placing blame on the man right?

 

[Duwop]

My kid gotta wait days for a proper meal cuz her stamps ain’t come yet?

THAT'S MY ISSUE!!!!

How are you this mad about McDonald's?!!!
How are you concerned about my kid eating while they watch?!
What the fuck is really going on here?!

He's more worried about what is not his responsibility and not scratching his head to how his responsibility is living. Like there's no way you this mad about McDonald's. And what the fuck you mean your stamps... Are you saying there's NO FUCKING FOOD in your house.

You gotta camera out ready to expose me about bringing McDonald's when you exposing yourself by telling me ain't no fucking food in the house and not asking for help.


This not an exposure moment. This is a"aye I need to talk to you" moment....
So yes she is wrong.... But it's easily shared blame cuz that's immediately where I would have centered the conversation. I don't need to talk to a judge about that. Answer me now

 

[Duwop]

The pivot to add blame to the man in stress of this falling on the women is astonishing.

Y’all do know women can be bad parents without placing blame on the man right?

They both wrong bruh....


Both.

 

[Dwayne]

“Where their daddies at”

 

[Tayboo]

The pivot to add blame to the man in stress of this falling on the women is astonishing.

Y’all do know women can be bad parents right?

They are both piss poor parents. She's just the more pissy parent with a nasty attitude.

 

[BlackRain]

We assume but I don’t believe her for that to be true.

any women that would deny her child food by throwing it away is not to be believed when it comes to food issues.

They wasn’t home anyways.

You can choose not to believe that. That's fine. That still don't take away that the video shows her clearly not fit to be taking care of those kids and another part of being a good parent is making sure they're in a healthy living environment. Which living with a parent who snaps like that clearly shows they aren't. Neither person is doing the job they're supposed to in terms of making sure that child's best interest is put first.

 

[mryounggun]

Y'all have somehow made this 'Should he be fighting for custody?' rather than 'Is he wrong for only bringing one meal?'.

 

[Duwop]

Like she set him up to shit on her if he really gave a fuck

" Yes I am good dad, I bring McDonald's cuz he likes toys and your food nasty... But if you telling me your other kids starving... Then you don't need to be exposing me, you need to humble yourself and say you need help. Like what the fuck are you doing with the stamps? Child support? Like why the fuck are your kids hungry? Fuck this McDonalds... You got eggs milk and bread in the house? Are you even living right, right now?"

That's my view point. He worried about other kids not being his responsibility. I need to know why you acting like this the only food they gonna see today