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platonic friendships

I think men and women can be friends without having ulterior motives.

I mean, you can find your friend of the opposite sex attractive but still be just friends and not expect anything more. I guess (after reading alot of the post) I might be different than most on this subject.
 
this convo seems to creep up every blue moon. I'll sum up a previous rant with this, two individuals can be friends. Men and women, as a whole, can not.

Just because a few people are able to maintain a platonic relationship, doesn't mean that everyone can. I see it as a waste of time to even bother looking for anything platonic. If it happens then there have to be some underlining circumstances on why it occurred in the first place.
 
Mr BFK said:
I'm blown @ mofos actually nosigning this statement

people actually think real friends keep secrets and lust each other on the low?

friends don't keep it 100 with each other?



and I def know u will never get a woman to admit that she stayed "friends" with a guy after he rejected some pussy she offered

cats are really this cool w/ 1-sided friendships?
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Why do you think friends have to tell each other everything? If a friend doesnt want to talk about a sensitive issue, I would not be offended. Trial friends are people that are their for you in your time of need and are trustworthy.

Shit happens. You can develop feelings for a friend as time progress. The more you spend time with someone, your bond grows. If I begin to develop feelings for a friend, but she wants to remain just friends, then I would respect that. I would move on. Im not the type to wait on people. The shit probably would hurt a little but I can find someone else and get over it. But I wouldnt treat her any different cause I value what we have. If I call someone a friend, it is because I trust them and they are a good person. That is hard to find in people.

A lot of people think with their emotions rather then being rational. So not everyone can still be friends with someone they have feelings for but is not reciprocated the same.
 
loud-ninja said:
Why do you think friends have to tell each other everything? If a friend doesnt want to talk about a sensitive issue, I would not be offended. Trial friends are people that are their for you in your time of need and are trustworthy.

Shit happens. You can develop feelings for a friend as time progress. The more you spend time with someone, your bond grows. If I begin to develop feelings for a friend, but she wants to remain just friends, then I would respect that. I would move on. Im not the type to wait on people. The shit probably would hurt a little but I can find someone else and get over it. But I wouldnt treat her any different cause I value what we have. If I call someone a friend, it is because I trust them and they are a good person. That is hard to find in people.

A lot of people think with their emotions rather then being rational. So not everyone can still be friends with someone they have feelings for but is not reciprocated the same.
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The bond grow into this because prior that, she was just a "friend you found sometimes attractive" .

No one is going to smash an unattractive friend or sister-like figure from your childhood, unless the ugly girl is no longer/has never been ugly (female ugly ducklings/Cinderella Effect) or that you were the Simba/Nala type when you were little: the innocent semi-romantic friendship where kids are like "ew, we will never kiss each other!" but y'all are riding and dying for each other and holding hands, then you both grew up and then you play again rolling on each other on the lawn and--

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loud-ninja said:
Why do you think friends have to tell each other everything? If a friend doesnt want to talk about a sensitive issue, I would not be offended. Trial friends are people that are their for you in your time of need and are trustworthy.

Shit happens. You can develop feelings for a friend as time progress. The more you spend time with someone, your bond grows. If I begin to develop feelings for a friend, but she wants to remain just friends, then I would respect that. I would move on. Im not the type to wait on people. The shit probably would hurt a little but I can find someone else and get over it. But I wouldnt treat her any different cause I value what we have. If I call someone a friend, it is because I trust them and they are a good person. That is hard to find in people.

A lot of people think with their emotions rather then being rational. So not everyone can still be friends with someone they have feelings for but is not reciprocated the same.
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so basically what u saying is u don't expect your friends to keep it a buck with u? how do u find someone trustworthy when u don't expect them to be honest with u?

how many female friends have u rejected sexually, but they still chose to be a friend to u afterwards?


how many dudes would be cool with their s/o having a male friend that already expressed to her that he would like to smash? how much time are they allowed to spend together before u think it's a problem?
 
JohnSmithCAN said:
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Names? Im not good at but you can start right here.

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I'm good at showing people things that fit the narrative.
 
and yeah I'm in this thread trolling/talking shit

but I think a lot of mofos are just insincere and/or hypocritical

I'll throw this out there.........since all these enlightened, deep, sensitive, transcendent-minded dudes are capable of such platonic friendship

how come none of these hetero dudes seem to never have gay men as friends?

I mean it's all platonic right? just cuz he go a certain way doesn't mean u have to

and I'm sure there are gay dudes out there with the same hobbies and interests (other than the obvious), right?:hahaha:
 
Mr BFK said:
so basically what u saying is u don't expect your friends to keep it a buck with u? how do u find someone trustworthy when u don't expect them to be honest with u?

how many female friends have u rejected sexually, but they still chose to be a friend to u afterwards?


how many dudes would be cool with their s/o having a male friend that already expressed to her that he would like to smash? how much time are they allowed to spend together before u think it's a problem?
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You have an entitled personality. If a friend was
Molested as a child and they chose to keep that from people, why would I get offended they didnt say anything? Some things are not for everyone to know. That doesnt take away from their loyalty

There are things some my family may know but my friends dont and I have never betrayed them.

I have only had sex with two friends. One was years ago. Havent done it since. We are super close. The other person was maybe a year and a half ago. We are close. I didnt reject either ones advances.

Now you are asking me a question about other males. I cant answer for them. I already stated not many people can handle being in that type of friendship. Has nothing about being enlightened. I expect a woman to have male/female friends she knew before me. If a dude feels his woman is beautiful, he should assume that other people may want her as well. Nothing you can do about it except trust your woman.
 
mryounggun said:
I got female friends I never fucked or tried to fuck. The shit ain't that deep.
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Lol...it really ain't but we silly. Who knows why or how it happens. Shit, I've had male friends that I was close wit and couldnt even tell you how we became friends. Lol....ever just been chilling wit ya nigga one day and look over and think.."where this nigga even from b?"..

But ugh,..some female friends that I've had, I just deadass didnt find them sexually attractive. Still dont, and not that they arent attractive. Dudes be simping them and shit,..I just honestly for what ever reason ...

My kids mother has a friend that was the bridesmaid at our wedding. Shes a redbone that looks like a combo of meg the stallion and lisa raye. By all intensive purposes I absolutely dont find her attractive and for someone reason shes really forgettable to me.

I was dropping my youngest off at pre k interviews at school and I'm standing next to this Amazon redbone and I just didnt care in any way. Then she says hey zack..I look at her like how u know my name?

She was like i was in your wedding..I was like oooooooh ...sup, and kept it moving.

I think it's more sometimes a guy just dont find the chick sexually attractive, so we can be friends and I wont tryda fuck..
 
This thread definitely explains why some of yall same niggas was in the "how many times did you have sex this year" thread talking about how you dont get none. Too many of yall niggas have no clue how to interact with women without coming off as creepy and thirsty as fuck
 
BlackRain said:
This thread definitely explains why some of yall same niggas was in the "how many times did you have sex this year" thread talking about how you dont get none. Too many of yall niggas have no clue how to interact with women without coming off as creepy and thirsty as fuck
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?????? real shit
 
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