Wrong or Right: Woman denies sex after date declines to buy her child's Happy Meal before going out

I wouldnt say all that. She wants a guy that is thoughtful. I saw the clip again. She said she was running behind. If she gave me a heads up about all this, I wouldnt have an issue. If I pulled up and you dropped this, it would be a flag for me but I would still do the date. Just to see where her head and life is at. People mamke mistakes and shit happens. I just had an issue of that being the final test. They dont have a relationship yet so to expect a stranger to pay for your kid's meal is strange. Eventually, the guy would be around the kid but he has to get to know her first.

Eh, lotta broads mindset is if a nigga dont atleast offer to pay for their childs meal. That aint a dude she wants in her life.

"If you aint down 4 my child. You aint down 4 me." Type shit
 
On the first date?
It avoids wasting time. What if she talks about the kid and how the kid is a hellraiser and got problems in school. You can decide at that point if you want to continue seeing her. It beats finding out when you first meet the kid.
 
I wouldnt say all that. She wants a guy that is thoughtful. I saw the clip again. She said she was running behind. If she gave me a heads up about all this, I wouldnt have an issue. If I pulled up and you dropped this, it would be a flag for me but I would still do the date. Just to see where her head and life is at. People mamke mistakes and shit happens. I just had an issue of that being the final test. They dont have a relationship yet so to expect a stranger to pay for your kid's meal is strange. Eventually, the guy would be around the kid but he has to get to know her first.

agreed @ the underlined

had she given me a heads-up I wouldn't trip

but some ol last minute shit cuz she didn't prioritize her childs needs.........ehh I'd pay the $5 bucks so the kid eats

but then I would cancel the date after bringing her and the food back........I just don't have time to date a woman seriously that got that kind of disorganization in her life



if I'm willing to date that woman then obviously I'm looking for more than just some easy pussy

she obviously don't qualify IMO for more so I ain't gon continue wasting time

dudes be too afraid to pass up potential pussy to where they will just accept anything
 
agreed @ the underlined

had she given me a heads-up I wouldn't trip

but some ol last minute shit cuz she didn't prioritize her childs needs.........ehh I'd pay the $5 bucks so the kid eats

but then I would cancel the date after bringing her and the food back........I just don't have time to date a woman seriously that got that kind of disorganization in her life



if I'm willing to date that woman then obviously I'm looking for more than just some easy pussy

she obviously don't qualify IMO for more so I ain't gon continue wasting time

dudes be too afraid to pass up potential pussy to where they will just accept anything
To each is own. But I have dated females with kids. The kid will always come first and that is understood. So I understand things happen at random. Just a heads up is all i ask. Especially if it is the first date.

She said she was running behind on time. Happens to all of us. She was probably gonna feed the kid well before date night. But all I can do is assume since there wasnt much to go on in that clip. I just had a problem with the expectation from her.
 
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But 1st date...naw. Did she ASK him if he could get buy the happy meal? Nope. All she said was "Can you run me by the McDonald's..." SHE said she had the money. SHE asked HIM if he wanted something. Yet SHE assumed the brotha was gonna pay. No...thats YOUR child. YOUR responsibility to feed YOUR child.

You asked him to swing by Mickey D's so YOU can get food for YOUR child...cool. Mission accomplished. That man is NOT responsible for providing for your child on the FIRST date. Foh wit that logic.

And I would've had a similar view if that man was expecting sex on the 1st date, just b/c he took her to dinner, but stops talkin to her b/c she doesn't do that. Smh
 
Let's say he DID know. Can you blame him if he said to himself, 'Yeah, I don't want not pussy that can be obtained for $4.99 plus tax.'?
If he knew, pay for that, shit I can see that logic, but that's not even the scenario, she tested him on some shit that doesn't and shouldn't involve him yet and then didn't even ask if he could do it, just assumed he should out of some silly ass notion of being thoughtful which apparentlywasn't the case since it was a test, that's some bull.

Any man would have turned and waited on the card or cash, that'sher kid... that's some expected shit on the male side. Him doing it without being asked would be a blessing and really nice. At the end of the day had she simply just asked shit could of proceeded on though her asking is a red flag which she probably knew
 
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I'm trying to understand something... did he know he could smash if he bought the happy meal or is everybody assuming he knew and should have done it...

I’m pretty sure he didn’t.

but I’m also pretty sure he knew it would strengthen his chances
 
I’m pretty sure he didn’t.

but I’m also pretty sure he knew it would strengthen his chances
But she never asked, him doing it would have been on some taking the initiative shit. Cool beans and points for "possible" fucking later, but ask... closed mouth don't get fed