Accountability is wack, lol. It's the truth, choose your circles better. Don't go after ain't shit men, don't have sex with men you can't see being good fathers or men who already have children. Just because "the heart wants, what the heart wants", doesn't mean it should get it.
For the record, I wholeheartedly agree with what Race posted. However, a lot of convos like this, where the vast majority of men have never and would never harm a black woman, or any woman is a waste of time. The mfs that need to hear this, aren't even reading it, nor would they care. If I had to tell my friend not to sexually, physically or mentally assault a bw, that means I've already made several mistakes in my own life.
if there's anyway I can ever help a bw, short of catching a case, I will do, always have.