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I'm not sure why were talking about what she said in some book...when my comment was LITEREALLY just about what she said to Steph and Ayesha.

I'll quote it again for those in the back:

'She legit just said that they were too young to be sexually exclusive.'

What’s the opposite of being sexually exclusive to you?
 
I'm not sure why were talking about what she said in some book...when my comment was LITEREALLY just about what she said to Steph and Ayesha.

I'll quote it again for those in the back:

'She legit just said that they were too young to be sexually exclusive.'

Because you started that post by saying that you didn't see where she told anyone to get ran through. It seems to me your conflating two different things. The people who are saying that she told people to go get ran through are saying that because of the book excerpt not the advice she gave to the Curries.
 
Fam, let's just get down to the nitty gritty. You said too many sexual partners makes you a hoe. You said you wouldn't seriously date a woman who had 10 dicks by age 21. I asked about 8 or 9 dicks by age 21. You said no. Cool. I dig it.

I asked what about 7 dicks by age 21?

Can you answer me?

I'm just trying to clarify what YOU said, Since YOU said that a high number makes you a hoe. I wanna know where the threshold is. 7 dicks by age 21 too many? Or na?
 
Would you have a problem with a woman not wanting to date you because in her eyes you've been with too many before her?

I wouldn’t have a problem with that at all.

Just like I would have a problem with a chick telling me I’m not dark enough or I got too much facial hair

It would be her preference
 
What’s the opposite of being sexually exclusive to you?

That's the thing. There is no 'to me'. 'Sexually exclusive' means you are having sex exclusively with one person. There is no need to debate what the term means. It's very black and white. Binary. It has a concrete meaning. Not being sexually exclusive means you are NOT exclusively having sex with one person. That is also very black and white.

Seems like people WANT to take that to mean getting banged out by 5 different niggas a week. Could be. Could also be having sex with ONE other nigga, whenever the mood strikes or the situation aligns. Who the fuck knows?

I know I don't. I know you don't either.
 
As a person who preferred to be in relationships vs be single in my 20s it would annoy the fuck out of me when i would constantly get told to run around and have fun before i really settled down in life. So i can get the feeling of saying Steph and Aeysha were probably annoyed at that comment. But niggas talk about fake outrage all the time this is it right here. Mad at a woman for saying the exact same shit I'm willing to bet many of us have been told, said, and/or told somebody before about being young. Y'all not mad at what she said. You're upset with who said it
 
I wouldn’t have a problem with that at all.

Just like I would have a problem with a chick telling me I’m not dark enough or I got too much facial hair

It would be her preference

You aren't the norm when it comes to being able to be held accountable to your own standards. And thats not gender specific. Men and women are both terrible at that shit
 
As a person who preferred to be in relationships vs be single in my 20s it would annoy the fuck out of me when i would constantly get told to run around and have fun before i really settled down in life. So i can get the feeling of saying Steph and Aeysha were probably annoyed at that comment. But niggas talk about fake outrage all the time this is it right here. Mad at a woman for saying the exact same shit I'm willing to bet many of us have been told, said, and/or told somebody before about being young. Y'all not mad at what she said. You're upset with who said it
im mad at both


and the whole lot of yall
 
As a person who preferred to be in relationships vs be single in my 20s it would annoy the fuck out of me when i would constantly get told to run around and have fun before i really settled down in life. So i can get the feeling of saying Steph and Aeysha were probably annoyed at that comment. But niggas talk about fake outrage all the time this is it right here. Mad at a woman for saying the exact same shit I'm willing to bet many of us have been told, said, and/or told somebody before about being young. Y'all not mad at what she said. You're upset with who said it

To young to settle down means don’t rush into relationships and not go fuck other folks though

You can be sexual exclusive with a person and not date them.
 
To young to settle down means don’t rush into relationships and not go fuck other fucks.

You can be sexual exclusive with a person and not date them.

You expect alot of people in their 20s when clearly history has shown...they don't subscribe to that shit
 
Did she actually go up to the Curries as a couple and tell them that their relationship wouldn't last and that they should seek other people? Because there is a difference between doing that and giving general advice to a single person that they should have their fun before they settle down.
 
You expect alot of people in their 20s when clearly history has shown...they don't subscribe to that shit

And you’re right because I wouldn’t have listen.


But we need to teach better to these youngins


STD is running around crazy these days because everybody wanna fuck everybody
 
Speaking of the correct number of sexual partners, meeting a chick at 30 with an abnormally low number to me is more scary than a chick with an abnormally high number.

One thing I learned in life is that there is a right age for a person to be doing thibgs. For example, the right age of being a party animal is 16 to 25. And people who dont party at those ages, start partying at 30 and look foolish. Same with drinking, drugs, etc. If a person hasnt done it when they are supposed too, chances are they will do it when they are supppsed to have responbilities.

This goes for sex too.

Find a person who is 30 and has only had 1 partner, and they will probably start fucking later on when they are supposed to be in a committed relationship.

If a chick doesnt know what else is out there before she got with you, shes gonna get curious to find out while she is with you.

Same for dudes.

This doesnt mean that you should end up with a person who got 100s of bodies. Just try to find a person that has had a normal amount of experience.
 
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