Is it wrong to only date one race?

[silverfoxx]

Black males of this thread: What do you think I could do to find a Black male of my qualifications above? Any tips? Would you date someone like me, knowing my qualifications and how I have responded to everyone so far? Be honest!

I would honestly be more open minded. You won't find all or most of these traits in one person like that. Also it's good to date someone who does not share your common ideologies because it helps broaden your understanding of other individuals. I believe that's why society is so divided now because folks don't wanna expand what they were taught in their safe bubble to understand others background, upbringing, lifestyle, and ideologies.

I truly believe if you are serious about understanding the black culture you should date a black man that doesn't share alot of your traits and both of you guys go into it with a open heart and understanding.

No disrespect but the fact that you believe entitlement to not be a negative trait is fine, but it's also counter productive if you won't allow yourself to be more open. Perhaps their is a deep psychological connection with degrees of fear, spite, frustration, and lust that you should be open too. The main word from all of this is "open", I promise you if you don't do so then the internal forces you may encounter as a black woman will never be resolved, but only numbed but temporary pleasures.

I think my background would surprise you, but I do believe this thread and you being here is important to the black community as a whole.

 

[silverfoxx]

No, it is not. Can you stop.

Is your first name vexatious because you sure act like it.

I'm sorry. Didn't mean to offend you with a cyber joke. I responded in a serious matter with my other post.

 

[silverfoxx]

@DugoutDubya I would recommend the book Unlearn by Humble the Poet. Think you would enjoy it.

 

[DugoutDubya]

I'm sorry. Didn't mean to offend you with a cyber joke. I responded in a serious matter with my other post.

I withdraw my earlier statement. You are fine, I was just getting a bit annoyed by some people who are insistent that I am either a White male troll or a sell-out just because I have opposing views. Also, as I said above I really do not care for Candance. I am always kind of confused why as soon as a Black person mentions that they are Republican or Conservative in the slightest immediately they are White, a man, a troll, a race traitor, etc. Kind of perplexing. Thought we could belong to whatever political party we choose.

Thank you for your serious post I do like your perspective.

 

[DugoutDubya]

@DugoutDubya I would recommend the book Unlearn by Humble the Poet. Think you would enjoy it.

I will have to check this out, I am looking for some new novels to read.

 

[DugoutDubya]

@1/2 Hello. What is funny about my post?

 

[Playmaker88]

Qualifications.... Get over yourself

:sayword:

 

[1/2]

@1/2 Hello. What is funny about my post?

i just super scrolled the whole thread

I really dont know what i laughed at

 

[AP2.5]

Dugout, you gonna take a pic and hold up a sign with todays date and a greeting to confirm you are who you said you are?

 

[Rubato]

Dugout, you gonna take a pic and hold up a sign with todays date and a greeting to confirm you are who you said you are?

I’ll engage in a good faith discussion if it does this

 

[MIUSA]

- Strong traditional family values
What's the point of a family, to conservative strong family values mean a man a woman. Many broken families come from this set up and it has no basis in being the most proper foundation of support, it's a pipe dream

I believe she’s referring to the nuclear family in which the man worked and the woman stayed at home. Yes there’s many broken families from this. Were you expecting 100% success rate with this when some people are trash and would fail in any system. At least with the traditional set up the workforce wasn’t overfilled with women which now take away jobs from men. Now we have women that are upset they can’t find men up to their standards and now we have kids coming home from school to both their dad and mom being at work.

 

[ImaInfluenza]

I believe she’s referring to the nuclear family in which the man worked and the woman stayed at home. Yes there’s many broken families from this. Were you expecting 100% success rate with this when some people are trash and would fail in any system. At least with the traditional set up the workforce wasn’t overfilled with women which now take away jobs from men. Now we have women that are upset they can’t find men up to their standards and now we have kids coming home from school to both their dad and mom being at work.

Got no problem wit what u do personally playboy

 

[MIUSA]

Got no problem wit what u do personally playboy

I would to if it wasn’t being pushed by social media and media in general.

 

[ImaInfluenza]

I would to if it wasn’t being pushed by social media and media in general.

How does it affect you, other than you have to see the media highlight people that arent like you?

 

[MIUSA]

How does it affect you, other than you have to see the media highlight people that arent like you?

You asking me how things that negatively effects society effects me? If strippers and pornstars were championed and idolized wouldn’t more women become strippers? Or at least affect the dating pools filled with women with trash philosophy. Maybe also affect how many rugrats run around without parental supervision or receiving proper training from their parents

 

[DugoutDubya]

I believe she’s referring to the nuclear family in which the man worked and the woman stayed at home. Yes there’s many broken families from this. Were you expecting 100% success rate with this when some people are trash and would fail in any system. At least with the traditional set up the workforce wasn’t overfilled with women which now take away jobs from men. Now we have women that are upset they can’t find men up to their standards and now we have kids coming home from school to both their dad and mom being at work.

Thanks, yes, this is what I was referring to.

 

[DugoutDubya]

I’ll engage in a good faith discussion if it does this

Again. Not an "it".

 

[DugoutDubya]

Qualifications.... Get over yourself

:sayword:

That won't be necessary Playmaker88. I myself hold ALL of the qualifications on my list, thus I am able to ask a partner to be held to them. I come from very good stock you see.

 

[DugoutDubya]

Dugout, you gonna take a pic and hold up a sign with todays date and a greeting to confirm you are who you said you are?

I'll still be posting a pic with that information, yes, but with some of these nasty & unkind replies, I'm thinking it would not be wise anymore to post a full face pic. I see that some obviously have a vendetta against any kind of interracial couplings. So maybe I'll do what they require on some Black Reddit forums, your entire hand or arm with a piece of paper that has your handwriting on it.

 

[AP2.5]

I'll still be posting a pic with that information, yes, but with some of these nasty & unkind replies, I'm thinking it would not be wise anymore to post a full face pic. I see that some obviously have a vendetta against any kind of interracial couplings. So maybe I'll do what they require on some Black Reddit forums, your entire hand or arm with a piece of paper that has your handwriting on it.

Not that it's your fault, but we've been having some issues with trolls and suspect white supremacists.

We are really trying to make this a Black centric site. It's hard to do that when people are posing. While people have faked pics before, we can spot those out and act accordingly.

It is certainly not a requirement to be a member here but it would definitely help to dispel any notion that you are in fact who you say you are