BlackAx410
Active Member
Lol yeah ima venture outside of the NBA thread more oftenI bet you start posting outside the NBA thread now lol
This just a Tuesday. Wait until it's a full moon
Woman leaves man stranded on date Fair or Foul?
- Thread starter BlackAx410
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loud-ninja
Here to point out the illogical
When both of yall are enjoying each other's company, time flies. If my date is only 30min, that means she aint feeling me or i aint feeling her. You make time for things you want to do.
Scandalust313
Unshakeable Unbreakable Victorious
On a FridayI bet you start posting outside the NBA thread now lol
This just a Tuesday. Wait until it's a full moon
dodge
Brooklyn Bred
Coffee Shop….Ice Cream….Library…...Park……Drive around town
I don’t take women out to eat or wine and dine on the FIRST date. Keep it simple, short and straightforward.
Plus there already should’ve been interaction and conversation before y’all even set the date up. So getting together for a half hour ain’t that long. You could even do that shit on their lunch break if their at work
dodge
Brooklyn Bred
This is BULLSHIT
The interaction and connection should’ve happened BEFORE the first date.
The first date is just spending time and enjoying each other’s company before it leads to somewhere else. Usually sexual if the spark is still there. You don’t even need a first date if the first convo is tight enough. The attraction should already be established by the first convo. The date is just buying some extra time.
I’ve been in more than enough situations where I would meet a girl…we would a few days later meet at a coffee shop for 30-45 mins…and if there was a spark…we’d hook up
It’s not that deep. The first date should always be sweet short and simple…and little, if any money should be spent
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BlackAx410
Active Member
Idk 30 minutes seems kinda quick but some people just have busy schedules or obligations so i get it
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
lmao nigga you live all the way in west bubble fuck
you not catching a flight overseas to get mixy with nobody
sit your ass down
dodge
Brooklyn Bred
I think some people don’t establish the connection BEFORE the first date. So they wait for the first date and do a whole bunch of shit to try to build a connection….FUCK THAT SHIT.
The connection should be established by the first conversation
My shit is different…the first date is just me and her buying some extra time before we get busy lol…there’s no way I’m spending all day just hanging out with one female if I don’t have a serious enough relationship with her..
Ehhh
Just because something works for me doesn't mean it has to work for you.
If you are finding success with this method, that's all that matters
dodge
Brooklyn Bred
Ehhh
Just because something works for me doesn't mean it has to work for you.
If you are finding success with this method, that's all that matters
Fuck out my face nigga
loud-ninja
Here to point out the illogical
Yo, you funny. Lol, if you cant take being around a person for 30mins, why try all?
"Drive around town". What are you, a tour guide?
Female: so where are we going
Dodge: drive around to show you some spots.
Female: sounds fun.
Dodge: on the left is a nice spanish food place. On the right, good Caribbean place with some jerk food.
Female: all sounds good. Lets hit up the caribbean spot.
Dodge: hit up, we werent going in. I said show.
Female: I thought we were going out on a date?
Dodge: this was the date. If you hungry, I got some crackers and juice.
(Phone 30 min alarm goes off)
Dodge: welp, times up
Female: what's that mean?
Dodge: time for you to leave so I can go home. Call me when you get home. Hope you had fun. The second date is gonna be even better
Female: *walks off with anger without saying anything*
dodge
Brooklyn Bred
If that’s how you would describe YOUR experiences then just say so..cause that definitely is NOT how I do things
Seriously…do y’all take the time to actually LEARN how people do certain things or do you try to crack jokes because you’re not familiar with them..?
Read close dumbass….the connection is ALREADY ESTABLISHED BY THE FIRST CONVERSATION..
Do you know what that means??? There is already a clear interest that her and I want to hook up…the first date is just us buying time or getting together to hang out (if we choose to do so)
So if I meet a woman I know is digging me and I say “I’m free let’s get together, drive around and listen to some music”….it’s really just FOREPLAY
I’m flirting, talking dirty, playing the right music..and guess what? In my experiences it has led to us going back to my place for a hook up
The first date for me is just a form of foreplay before it leads back to my place. But I know this already because I’ve already ESTABLISHED the connection…think twice before you write up some fantasy shit about me in your head nigga lol
Rickyrich
OG
lmfao u aint finna do shit bruh foh
GNS
OG
Gat damn at how many of u took this seriously. Obviously dude is joking.
Grady already said fighting was dumb
BlackAx410
Active Member
I see your perspective, i just never had the juice to pull off your approach lls
dodge
Brooklyn Bred
I can tell some of the members here haven’t lol…but at least you ADMITTED it
I’m just VERY flirtatious with women to the point where I know by the end of the first convo if she’s feeling me or not on that type of level..I don’t like beating around the bush. If I see a SEXY ass woman at the store or mall. I’m not afraid to introduce myself and tell her exactly that..
Some guys want to take a woman out on a first date to hopefully get a connection. In my life I’ve tended to know a connection had already been established before I decide to have a first date with her…
meaning I already know where our date is going to lead into…I’m just buying time and setting a mood lol
dodge
Brooklyn Bred
This guy lol
BlackAx410
Active Member
Yeah i always wanted to build connections with people. Took a lot of L's in the dating pool (some of it was documented on the IC) eventually i was able to build and find somebody