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Why Are Females So Hesitant To Post Here?

Some promote a coddle and hold your hand approach to make these women comfortable

Do women ever have to make the men here feel comfortable? No it's always the other way 'round

I'm not spending my time to make a grown woman feel good enough to post on an internet forum

Either you with it or you ain't
Why not?
 
Or.

The women are just bored of this place and in turn don't do anything to make it better for themselves such as interacting, participating, making threads etc so they stay bored and uninterested

It is what it is. I'm unaffected

More Women being here just makes more simping. Also if the women who aren't around were posting would it be THAT much of a difference? They was bursting with personality? They was THAT interesting?

To be fair. Before the migration, the women who regularly posted were doing just that, making thread, and are funny.

I think a the reputation IC posters had plus all the comparisons and talks of what used to happen deterred them from posting.

Plus a lot of you miggas love white women and it became obvious.
 
Because why am I going out my way to make a person feel comfortable? That's not a normal thing nor my responsibility. If you don't like how shit is, add your influence to help mold it into what you like.

It's like homie said those women aren't going to join because it's too male centric...but if you join the site and there's more women it'll be less male centric.....like you can help solve the problem but you won't because you feel defeated already in a sense
 
Why do you think that is Dusef?
I already said it..
Most these Niggaz don't know how to talk to women without it being a beef.

Their social skills are lacking in that department.

Last year there was a better balance between dudes who actually know how to interact and be cordial without every thing turning into an aggressive battle of the sexes.

Even in the most heated threads there was a certain tounge in cheek tone to most debates.

But now the tone is much more aggressive, confrontational, and defensive.

Niggaz sucked the fun outta shit.
 
I'll just say women have been respected and treated fairly on here compared to the last message forum I was on .. It was a very fragile and frankly misogynistic place for women to thrive and post freely... Exposures and all



The owner and administration have done excellently... I'd love more women on here to post... I enjoy female company
 
Yall wanted the ic lol yall wanted edgy and raw no homo

Nobody was really clamoring for the “old days”

For real most of us was glad we could essentially post in peace for real.

Anywho...all this talking is cool...but how about we take the steps necessary to keep and bring back the female posters we have and then focus on getting new ones.

One of yall mods drop that super list...
 
I already said it..
Most these Niggaz don't know how to talk to women without it being a beef.

Their social skills are lacking in that department.

Last year there was a better balance between dudes who actually know how to interact and be cordial without every thing turning into an aggressive battle of the sexes.

Even in the most heated threads there was a certain tounge in cheek tone to most debates.

But now the tone is much more aggressive, confrontational, and defensive.

Niggaz sucked the fun outta shit.


Interesting...I might give this a Rebuttal but I'm trying not to give an insensitive answer..give me a few
 
I tried to explain it the other day.

You don't have to simp or coddle to talk to women.

I'm convinced most of y'all justdon't know how to talk to women
THIS

its the either/mentality

if you talk to a woman in any positive way, you simping/caping

if you disagree with her, you attacking her

the issue here is most males here cant articulate their thoughts in a non attacking manner in the first place. Race gets a lot of dudes riled up b/c of her views...that's when you really see who the dudes are that can/cant have a conversation with a female when you disagree with their povs
 
Some promote a coddle and hold your hand approach to make these women comfortable

Do women ever have to make the men here feel comfortable? No it's always the other way 'round

I'm not spending my time to make a grown woman feel good enough to post on an internet forum

Either you with it or you ain't

Exhibit A
 
honestly ....

why would most women post anywhere thats not female friendly?

man ......i really hated when the IC tried to expose a chick...even when chicks did it to other chicks.....it was corny.

i never wanted to be involved in that type shit...cause you never know what may lead someone to something and i was never that invested in someones life to have to search them out to expose.

i mean....i know and knew alot of shit that could bring niggas down....but what was the point?

i always looked at it like....you dont know what brought a person to that point and who am i to judge?

but this place is just the reverse of LSA......they some male bashing chicks over there.

and just like here they pick and choose their favorites.
I already said it..
Most these Niggaz don't know how to talk to women without it being a beef.

Their social skills are lacking in that department.

Last year there was a better balance between dudes who actually know how to interact and be cordial without every thing turning into an aggressive battle of the sexes.

Even in the most heated threads there was a certain tounge in cheek tone to most debates.

But now the tone is much more aggressive, confrontational, and defensive.

Niggaz sucked the fun outta shit.
exactly.....

cant debate with niggas without them saying you in your feelings.
if you aint got shit to say...dont post.

it has gotten corny.

also with everyone trying to expose someone....also got corny......i search this niggas meta data or the reverse search of a pic....it aint real.
then a chick post a pic and another chick gotta out do her....

smdh

where the healthy debates at?
 
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