That’s different but that shit shouldn’t take days.what if someone needs space to get their thoughts gathered so they can in turn be able to communicate how they are feeling?
i mean, just a thought
it was kinda tongue and cheek b/c i didnt understand how people (read the dudes) were equating needing space to taking a break.That’s different but that shit shouldn’t take days.
nahthey are when you specify that lol
you just asked what people think when somebody says they need a break
i think you got the most common feeling about that particular situation
now....with this said.....if the wife and I are having a heated convo, and would rather think for a minute and pick it up later....we do that
we'll typically save it for when we're at work or some shit and text it out because its easier to get full thoughts out without interruptions and eye rolls
I wouldnt call that "needing space or a break"
also, we dont really know if said couple lives together, is married, kids, history of whoring, etc lol......all that shit makes each situation different
if ya'll just dating and dont even live together then both parties would be goofy for even talking about a break lmao
what does that mean tho.i just be wanting to be to myself to ponder on some things lol
another piece of ass aint one of em
Well alright lol
Ok, what about in your marriage Dos. Not your Polk High glory days
Lol I’m saying the one who didn’t want space is the one to watch
what if someone needs space to get their thoughts gathered so they can in turn be able to communicate how they are feeling?
i mean, just a thought
WHO SAID ANYTHING ABOUT STOPPING THE RELATIONSHIP ?!?!?! lol
i asked a question...then ya'll answered with all of these similar povs assuming that's what I meant i guess...i honestly dont know
i never used the work break, but as each post got made, my question got morphed into breaking up for some unspecified period of time lol
I know who the hurt ones are by the responses lolLet it out bruh we all hurt some time
But when you think about it, someone telling you they need space is initially a break from you. If they need a short period of time (hours) to get their thoughts together then cool but most people don’t ask for that after a small petty argument. They just take it. I think when it’s mentioned (especially during a rough patch in the relationship) that they need space to think over some things and it’s not just a “I need a moment to think” after an argument, they are legit asking for a break from you. Or it looks like a break.WHO SAID ANYTHING ABOUT STOPPING THE RELATIONSHIP ?!?!?! lol
i asked a question...then ya'll answered with all of these similar povs assuming that's what I meant i guess...i honestly dont know
i never used the work break, but as each post got made, my question got morphed into breaking up for some unspecified period of time lol