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Poll Were you born out of wedlock?

Were your parents married?

  • Yes- my parents were married

    Votes: 21 75.0%
  • No- my parents were not married

    Votes: 6 21.4%
  • My parents were married, just not to each other

    Votes: 1 3.6%

  • Total voters
    28
To all those who parents were married.... Has that influenced your desire or decision to be married?

Do you view your parents marriage as a template for what you want our of your relationships??

No it didn't affect my desire to get married or not

Hell no. My parents relationship was their own. They were their own people. I'm not them so my relationships were never based on them two.
 
my parents were married when they had me and the rest of my siblings...neither had any kids by other people and they were together for almost y 30 years..before my mom passed..


i enjoyed signicficant benefits grom growing up in a 2 parent household but tbh


their relationship is probaly why im not married and will probaly NEVER hvae kids.. the only thing i learned grom theM
is dont ever stay with SOMEONE you cannot please/fulfilll in the ways thay count.. the stories i cluld share but only discuss with my siblings would baffle anyone
 
No it didn't affect my desire to get married or not

Hell no. My parents relationship was their own. They were their own people. I'm not them so my relationships were never based on them two.
Yeah I don’t understand when ppl say the opposite why/how are you letting an entirely different relationship from ppl 20-30 years your senior dictate how you operate your relationships in life?

You’re either incredibly impressionable to the point it can be detrimental to yourself, l just using it as an excuse, or not strong enough to dictate things yourself
 
Parents never got married but they were together off and on for 20 ridiculous years. They might as well have been married.

My dad was a shitty dude back in the day. I got three older half sisters cuz the man refused to keep his hands to himself. My mom put up with a lot. Even tho they finally ended things when I started high school I’ll admit he was there for my sister & me once we started getting older. He’s in my life a lot more since my mom passed.
 
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