Poll Were you born out of wedlock?

[Banginscrew901]

I've met my birth parents.

Do you have a good relationship with them?

 

[Duwop]

To all those who parents were married.... Has that influenced your desire or decision to be married?

Do you view your parents marriage as a template for what you want our of your relationships??

 

[Freeman]

Yall remember that poster that told us a story where he was smashing an unwed mother while her infant was stashed in a drawer?

 

[Duwop]

Yall remember that poster that told us a story where he was smashing an unwed mother while her infant was stashed in a drawer?

Oh you on that tip today?

Remember when Dis broke you down to the point where you blocked him and refused to enter the thread??

 

[GNS]

Yall remember that poster that told us a story where he was smashing an unwed mother while her infant was stashed in a drawer?

Oh you on that tip today?

Remember when Dis broke you down to the point where you blocked him and refused to enter the thread??

Guys, we don't have to do this

 

[Duwop]

I was just having a friendly Friday conversation,.

It can turn into a friendly fire shoot-out whenever

 

[Disanthrope]

Option 3 is some real shit

 

[WilberDMillz]

My parents got married a year after I was born.

 

[Duwop]

Du... this is tether 101

""moms wasn't a bussdown"

That dude is Guyanese Canadian talking like a Brooklyn nigga

You see how they use our language our vernacular our slang to shit on us...

You ain't gotta convince me shit...I been asked why he not on any Canadian websites..

How the fuck you get ran off your block online?

 

[Suckio Andretti]

My parents never married

I get why

They both suck as far as being relationship material

 

[Duwop]

My parents never married

I get why

They both suck as far as being relationship material

How did that impact your romantic relationships growing up?

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

To all those who parents were married.... Has that influenced your desire or decision to be married?

Do you view your parents marriage as a template for what you want our of your relationships??

they divorced a few years later that was more influential than anythjng else

 

[Duwop]

they divorced a few years later that was more influential than anythjng else

I feel like divorce would be hard AF on kids.. one of my best friends was telling me about that shit one day....I honestly thought that nigga would never get married. But he gotta wife and two kids now. They happy too....proud of the homie

 

[Suckio Andretti]

How did that impact your romantic relationships growing up?

It didn’t

I know how to compartmentalize and isolate

Can honestly say that had no bearing on how I lived at all

 

[Tayboo]

I was born out of wedlock, but my parents married then quickly divorced after. It definitely effected how I looked at relationships as an adult.

 

[BaKardi Slang]

Has it impacted your relationships?

Of course, mainly trust issues/abandonment issues. That's probably a large part of why I tend to cut people off over the smallest issues lol

But really, it's whatever. Absent and bad fathers are normal in my family, even with my great grandparents generation. It's fucked up, but it's whatever.

 

[AP3.0]

Aye Dough

Lemme out

 

[Duwop]

It didn’t

I know how to compartmentalize and isolate

Can honestly say that had no bearing on how I lived at all

That's good that you feel that way. I feel like most people should be and to do this, but I was legit puzzled that people really feel only children from married homes are capable of a successful marriage themselves

 

[Duwop]

I was born out of wedlock, but my parents married then quickly divorced after. It definitely effected how I looked at relationships as an adult.

How bout as a parent? So you think you will discourage your children's marriage aspirations when that day comes?

 

[Duwop]

Aye Dough

Lemme out

You still got hope, or is that shit dead in the water?

Do you even want to run it back with someone else?