Think about what you said. "An image in music vs the real life person".
The real life person created the image portrayed in her music which led to her being in the type of social circles wherein she got shot in the foot.
With proper care and therapy she'll be alright. "As black men" we get purposely shot the fuck up everyday and damn near every couple years a famous rapper gets shot and it aint in the foot and it aint by another celebrity we were partying with and sitting right next to. And you kniw what nobody ever says? "Well his image was different than his real life".
No. Whether it was your fault or circumstances beyond your control, you take it to the chin (or the foot) and move better next time.
Jumping on the shea butter train for image protection is the same thing Nicki Minaj has been doing for years and it's fuckin disgusting. Don't start talking about the plight of black women because some shit happened to you when all you (mostly?) Ever did was degrade the minds of the very black women you suddenly identify with. That goes for City Girls too.