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OPINION Thoughts on questioning your child after away from home visit.

Late to my own damn party!

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So he was offended because she asks this question ONLY after the daughter comes from his side of the families houses. He said when she’s with her side of the family and returns, she never questions the babygirl. So, he decided to question the daughter Sunday and the BM went off.

1. how does he know she only asks when shes with him
2. did he ask out of concern of spite? he could have ruined his chance to build trust with his child.
3. how did his BM know he asked her?


this is becoming too much.

all this fuckery is going to corrupt the child and make it easier for a predator..

GOD forbid
 
not wrong at all but there's a way you can go about it so that the child doesnt realize they're being interrogated.....for the short time we were "co-parenting" my bm used to do this all kinda wrong when my baby would go back to her....starting off with "did they hit you, who was there, did anybody touch you here" and all that kinda shit.....she was 2

so you also have to take different precautions at different ages

both sides of the fam know im nuts about my girls.....my mama barely gets them because she works a lot and has a new husband.....he started w/ that paw paw shit and I cut it instantly....only one of my wife's 5 sisters keeps them overnight, cuz she can deal with the stipulations lol....the rest dont want the headache

the women at my 7 yr old's salon laugh at me sittin up in there cuz I wont leave her.....not even to get food or none of that....I know I cant be with all of them all the time but I'll never make it easy
man when i be at the nail shop or salon with my seed or niece i got all the play.
 
1. how does he know she only asks when shes with him
2. did he ask out of concern of spite? he could have ruined his chance to build trust with his child.
3. how did his BM know he asked her?


this is becoming too much.

all this fuckery is going to corrupt the child and make it easier for a predator..

GOD forbid
They live together. He said he asked out of concern but I called his bluff. He did the shit out of spite because he was mad. I told him the way they are handling this shit is childish af and that kids are smart and pick up on shit we don’t think they would. So, I agree that they are corrupting the child.

I don’t think questioning your child is wrong as long as it’s out of concern and you’re using the right questions.
 
They live together. He said he asked out of concern but I called his bluff. He did the shit out of spite because he was mad. I told him the way they are handling this shit is childish af and that kids are smart and pick up on shit we don’t think they would. So, I agree that they are corrupting the child.

I don’t think questioning your child is wrong as long as it’s out of concern and you’re using the right questions.
ok...this doesnt even make sense.....

they live together?

the shit aint even a united front?

bruh better hope he dont break up with her....cause he going thru hell.
 
They live together. He said he asked out of concern but I called his bluff. He did the shit out of spite because he was mad. I told him the way they are handling this shit is childish af and that kids are smart and pick up on shit we don’t think they would. So, I agree that they are corrupting the child.

I don’t think questioning your child is wrong as long as it’s out of concern and you’re using the right questions.

this x 1000

i guess we getting back on track K.Pear
 
I don’t know the details on him and his BM relationship but I know they are together. I don’t talk to the dude like that and was actually confused as to why he wanted to talk to me about the situation.

I think both of them are handling the shit wrong.
 
Now as for me: I’m asking. Idgaf who you was with. My son is away a lot. Hell, he leaves damn near every weekend and he gone now until Sunday.

So, hell yea I’m asking. I’m FaceTiming, texting, calling at random. I need to be aware.
 
man when i be at the nail shop or salon with my seed or niece i got all the play.

they try, but I brush everything off...I've gotten kinda settled into it so they probably all think ima dick

same for women at work, in stores, etc......im usually short and dont make much eye contact

just makes shit easier for me
 
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