Aight so I've thought about this some more..A couple of things to note
Ladies, show some interest in his hobbies/things he likes to do. I get it, you might not necessarily like video games or even understand or know how to play them, but why not just ask him to show you just for a few minutes? Unless he is an absolute asshole, which in this case, if he is, then why you still with him, but he won't mind you playing with him for a few minutes because in that moment you are showing him you support him in the things he likes to do outside the relationship. One thing I love that
@Reesey has said is that she finds pleasure in just being around her husband even when he is playing video games because she can just read a book or something and he don't necessarily have to interact with her for her to feel like she's getting attention.
Learn to love the comfortable silence. Some men are very talkative, most men aren't.
Accept that it's ok for y'all to just be in the same area and not actually talk in order for that to count as quality time.
Appreciate the pockets of time ya'll do spend together. Piggy backing off my previous remark, not every single moment is gonna be filled with 2hr conversations. But while talking in pockets, you will soon realize that those pockets of time can turn into long in depth conversations.
Rub a nigga from time to time. I ain't talking about no massage, but just the stroke of y'all's soft ass hands can do so much to make a brotha feel loved/appreciated. Referring to
@MissK thread about love languages (which I highly recommend you read if you haven't), physical touch might not be his primary or even secondary language, but I bet he will appreciate your touch all the same, especially if he's had a shitty day.
Don't make quality time only be about going out and getting dressed up to do stuff.
I know white people have made Netflix and chill corny af, but still, it never was an issue before when y'all would do this, but all of a sudden, then only time you count something as quality time is if it's in a restaurant? Goes back to appreciate the pockets of time.
I'm not saying don't ever go anywhere or do anything nice, but don't let that be the rule, let that be the exception.