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Loquacious said:
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at this age, i dont even care about the permission to cheat. Im not that beat on trying to fuck new women all the time.

I just want the freedom to disappear a few days at a time with no questions asked, i want the freedom to not have to chill with her all the time without questions asked, and the freedom to end the whole shit without any questions and feelings involved.

Smmfh. I sound like a scumbag
 
AZTG said:
at this age, i dont even care about the permission to cheat. Im not that beat on trying to fuck new women all the time.

I just want the freedom to disappear a few days at a time with no questions asked, i want the freedom to not have to chill with her all the time without questions asked, and the freedom to end the whole shit without any questions and feelings involved.

Smmfh. I sound like a scumbag
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Just buy it smh
 
Since covid I haven't been fucking with crowds and shit but after seeing Scarface on drink champs if he comes back to DC to perform. I'm gonna have to be there.
 
Scandalust313 said:
I know

Because you want someone to like/love you without you giving any back

Sick, selfish asshole thinking/behavior
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Reciprocation isn't an issue for me. I just need space, that doesn't make me a sick, selfish asshole. That just makes me incompatible with women that can't deal with it. I'll find one eventually that can or maybe I'll change in the future, time will tell.
 
Golan said:
Reciprocation isn't an issue for me. I just need space, that doesn't make me a sick, selfish asshole. That just makes me incompatible with women that can't deal with it. I'll find one eventually that can or maybe I'll change in the future, time will tell.
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I was talking about the post that I quoted

He needs to buy the type of companionship that he wants

If it doesn't apply, let it fly
 
Scandalust313 said:
I was talking about the post that I quoted

He needs to buy the type of companionship that he wants

If it doesn't apply, let it fly
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I wouldnt call it sick or selfish.

I didnt say im looking for someone to love me that I dont have to or wont love back.

I just said I dont like the possesiveness that comes with a relationship.

I want all the positive emotions without any of the negative ones.

Will I get that? No. Will sacrifices have to be made? For sure. They been made before and theyll be made again.

I just talked about my ideal relationship, which allows me to love and be loved, but also allows me my space, hence, disappearing for a few days and chillin on my own.
 
AZTG said:
I wouldnt call it sick or selfish.

I didnt say im looking for someone to love me that I dont have to or wont love back.

I just said I dont like the possesiveness that comes with a relationship.

I want all the positive emotions without any of the negative ones.

Will I get that? No. Will sacrifices have to be made? For sure. They been made before and theyll be made again.

I just talked about my ideal relationship, which allows me to love and be loved, but also allows me my space, hence, disappearing for a few days and chillin on my own.
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That isn't what you said
 
Scandalust313 said:
That isn't what you said
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But thats what i meant.

Let me disappear a few days. Its not to cheat or fuck. I legit like being alone from time to time.

Let me just chill in my room every now and again instead of having to chill with you all the time.

Doesnt mean i dont love you, just means I like alone time too.

And before we act like this is wild, every dude in here will agree. Every dudes girl complains if dude aint trying to watch a movie with her tonight.

Its got nothing to do with her, or love, but shit be feeling like its smothering at times.

That was my point. It might have came out different but thats what I meant.

I even said im not interested in the permission to cheat. Im not the type to look for sex outside the relationship. Even with a permission to cheat I wont cheat.

I just want permission to have a second apartment where I can chill alone every now and again without questions asked.
 
AZTG said:
But thats what i meant.

Let me disappear a few days. Its not to cheat or fuck. I legit like being alone from time to time.

Let me just chill in my room every now and again instead of having to chill with you all the time.

Doesnt mean i dont love you, just means I like alone time too.

And before we act like this is wild, every dude in here will agree. Every dudes girl complains if dude aint trying to watch a movie with her tonight.

Its got nothing to do with her, or love, but shit be feeling like its smothering at times.

That was my point. It might have came out different but thats what I meant.

I even said im not interested in the permission to cheat. Im not the type to look for sex outside the relationship. Even with a permission to cheat I wont cheat.

I just want permission to have a second apartment where I can chill alone every now and again without questions asked.
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Ok

Good luck
 
AZTG said:
But thats what i meant.

Let me disappear a few days. Its not to cheat or fuck. I legit like being alone from time to time.

Let me just chill in my room every now and again instead of having to chill with you all the time.

Doesnt mean i dont love you, just means I like alone time too.

And before we act like this is wild, every dude in here will agree. Every dudes girl complains if dude aint trying to watch a movie with her tonight.

Its got nothing to do with her, or love, but shit be feeling like its smothering at times.

That was my point. It might have came out different but thats what I meant.

I even said im not interested in the permission to cheat. Im not the type to look for sex outside the relationship. Even with a permission to cheat I wont cheat.

I just want permission to have a second apartment where I can chill alone every now and again without questions asked.
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As a nigga who actually lived like this for a while I’d say speak to her first.... some will understand ur need to be on ur own for a few days , some will just think u a scumbag and ultimately dump u
 
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