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Rubato said:
What’s your take on exoplanets and the beings potentially living there?

Do they know Him?

And do you think Ezekiel 1:15-18 is really a UFO sighting like people been saying?
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All "extra-terrestrial" life are spirit beings called Angels.
1/3rd are bad and they are the ones who confuse humans with their "ufo and alien" propaganda.
God is not the author of confusion but He is the author and finisher of our faith. All He asks is for us to trust Him.

Ezekiel shows us the 4 living creatures (cherubim) who carry the throne of God where He wills. We see them in Revelation as well.

Ezekiel 30:9 is the place where you will find the strong delusion that will be sent when the day of the LORD comes like a thief in the night.

"Quiet Place: Day One" gives a sneak peek of what will happen if you get left behind on that day.
see "Leave the world behind" and "Don't look up" for further Hollywood dramatization.

Sadly it will be far worse than that. Amen.
 
RaptureSoonUgoing? said:
The universe is the house of the Sun, Moon, and Stars, correct?
Well, every house is built by someone, correct?

But the builder of all things is God
His name is Jesus Christ.
Amen.
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So wait... I thought Jesus was the Son of god. You guys are confusing. Is Jesus the god of dingos, elephants and octopi? Or just humans?

Because I think we're getting back into the alien question.

You know what...? do your thing bruh. I really have no animosity towards you and I'm glad you're not trying to steal my car stereo to sell for crill money. Have a blessed day.
 
Royal said:
You don't know what she's done to mend that relationship though

Yall act like she a Crack head and left the baby with a sex trafficker

Fake outrage
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Nobody outraged we giving her the same energy we would give a deadbeat dad. If we was talking about Dave being a deadbeat you wouldn’t say nothing
 
SeaSnake said:
Nobody outraged we giving her the same energy we would give a deadbeat dad. If we was talking about Dave being a deadbeat you wouldn’t say nothing
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Naw yall not, you'd be blaming the baby mama or ex wife. Talking black men always get the short end

Yall taking your own parental issues and applying then to Monique.

You don't know anything to claim oh this person a bad parent.

Go to counseling so yall not harboring hate
 
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Royal said:
Naw yall not, you'd be blaming the baby mama or ex wife. Talking black men always get the short end

Yall taking you own parental issues and applying then to Monique.

You don't know anything to claim oh this person a bad parent.

Go to counseling so yall not harboring hate
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Are you sure you realize who you're responding to? Lol
 
BlackRain said:
Are you sure you realize who you're responding to? Lol
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Yeah Hellczar....

I don't care who @ me... my response gonna be the same

I don't think she a bad mother

I think she placed her priority on making money and based off her upbringing , I can understand why she felt that was more important than physically being present in the day to day duties

And I personally know that men have moved in this exact same way and nobody even bat an eye

She provided financial and she learned that's not all it takes to raise a child
 
Royal said:
Yeah Hellczar....

I don't care who @ me... my response gonna be the same

I don't think she a bad mother

I think she placed her priority on making money and based off her upbringing , I can understand why she felt that was more important than physically being present in the day to day duties

And I personally know that men have moved in this exact same way and nobody even bat an eye

She provided financial and she learned that's not all it takes to raise a child
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Thats just a wild take to throw at him of all people. Those generalized statements really do nothing but indiciate you're reading to respond not to actually take in what's being said. It also seems like you're going to bat more to try and level out what you see as disporprotionate treatment that men who do this vs women do. Only problem is you're picking a case where the person has admitted they're guilty of what you're trying to defend them from. So what's the point in arguing against something that Monique herself said she didn't do a good job at?
 
BlackRain said:
Thats just a wild take to throw at him of all people. Those generalized statements really do nothing but indiciate you're reading to respond not to actually take in what's being said. It also seems like you're going to bat more to try and level out what you see as disporprotionate treatment that men who do this vs women do. Only problem is you're picking a case where the person has admitted they're guilty of what you're trying to defend them from. So what's the point in arguing against something that Monique herself said she didn't do a good job at?
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This is precisely what I was about to point out.

Monique admitted she wasn't a good mother to her son. The problem I beleve we have with her at this point is her apparent lack of trying to make amends and being the mother to him that she's showing she is capable of being with her twins.
 
BlackRain said:
Thats just a wild take to throw at him of all people. Those generalized statements really do nothing but indiciate you're reading to respond not to actually take in what's being said. It also seems like you're going to bat more to try and level out what you see as disporprotionate treatment that men who do this vs women do. Only problem is you're picking a case where the person has admitted they're guilty of what you're trying to defend them from. So what's the point in arguing against something that Monique herself said she didn't do a good job at?
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Guilty of what ? Your not reading what I posted or not comprehending and you continue to @ me explaining the same thoughts over and over.

So let's go to grade school

Statement 1: I need to be better and be present more as a mother

Statement 2: I am a bad mother

These are two different Statements that have different meanings

To say I can improve on my parenting ....thats all parents

To say I am a bad parent and didn't do a good job ..... thats some parents

i never heard her say i am a bad parent .... yall said that cus her kid said she lied on the Shay Shay interview.....but she didn't
 
konceptjones said:
This is precisely what I was about to point out.

Monique admitted she wasn't a good mother to her son. The problem I beleve we have with her at this point is her apparent lack of trying to make amends and being the mother to him that she's showing she is capable of being with her twins.
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When did she say I am bad parent...

Yall are putting your own words instead of what she said

Your a parent.... are you perfect?

There's nothing you could have done better?
 
Royal said:
When did she say I am bad parent...

Yall are putting your own words instead of what she said

Your a parent.... are you perfect?

There's nothing you could have done better?
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As I said earlier, when I realized that my pursuit of a dream had negative consequences for my family, I gave it up to give them stability. She kept going and it became detrimental to her family, specifically her son. I put my family's needs before my wants repeatedly and still do to this day.

Take from that what you will.
 
Royal said:
Naw yall not, you'd be blaming the baby mama or ex wife. Talking black men always get the short end

Yall taking your own parental issues and applying then to Monique.

You don't know anything to claim oh this person a bad parent.

Go to counseling so yall not harboring hate
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Her son said she a bad parent. Don’t project your issues on to us. My bm got nothing to do with this
 
I don't know how Monique is with her other kids, but when one of her sons says she basically cared more about having things than having a relationship with him coming up and her own statements suggests he's telling the truth, we should all be able to agree that she wasn't a good mother for him.

An absent parent is a bad parent. What are we doing here? I ain't never seen a man or woman argue that a deadbeat dad wasn't a bad parent even when he had kids that he was good to.
 
Royal said:
Yeah Hellczar....

I don't care who @ me... my response gonna be the same

I don't think she a bad mother

I think she placed her priority on making money and based off her upbringing , I can understand why she felt that was more important than physically being present in the day to day duties

And I personally know that men have moved in this exact same way and nobody even bat an eye

She provided financial and she learned that's not all it takes to raise a child
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Men who moved the same way have a slew of issues with their kids tho. Kids be bucking or expecting money cuz that’s all they see. Moms get dragged by other women more than us.
 
Royal said:
Guilty of what ? Your not reading what I posted or not comprehending and you continue to @ me explaining the same thoughts over and over.

So let's go to grade school

Statement 1: I need to be better and be present more as a mother

Statement 2: I am a bad mother

These are two different Statements that have different meanings

To say I can improve on my parenting ....thats all parents

To say I am a bad parent and didn't do a good job ..... thats some parents

i never heard her say i am a bad parent .... yall said that cus her kid said she lied on the Shay Shay interview.....but she didn't
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Well since you want to be condescending you can stay in grade school and realize the difference between 'your' and 'you're' and also the difference between @ somebody and responding to their post. Im not @ you. Im responding to you. That's what happens on message boards.

Idk what world an absent parent isn't considered a bad parent. Since you want to keep the "if this was a man" thing going...men who are absent parents are considered bad parents and do catch flack for that. You seem to have an issue with Monique being subjected to that same thing.
 
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