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[Chi-Town B]

I wish my girl would send money to her ex, I'll think something going on and immediately get rid of her.

 

[Goldie]

lmaoooo yall scorned af man lol

 

[AP4.0]

so this jackass decided to post a sex tape of him and a former Miss Southern University chick

it was on the pron sites yesterday but got clapped quick...

i just dont understand why people need to feel validated by others on the internet

http://penpointnews.com/trouble-southern-university-former-miss-southern-involved-sex-tape/

 

[Black]

Did you hear how she talked to him, she said "set you're dumbass down". She treating him like a peer, that's how they talk to each other.

Some ppl have been called worse, but Id never call a child dumb. She handled it the best way she could, I suppose. He still doesn't get a free pass to act like a wild animal and call them bitches.

 

[Loquacious]

Damn. Y'all are so damn insecure. You don't have to automatically hate or cut off an ex when y'all break up. Especially if the break up wasn't bad. If they were a friend before, why can't they be a friend after? It is possible to be cool with an ex and not want them or want to fuck them.

 

[FakeOhMars]

Some ppl have been called worse, but Id never call a child dumb. She handled it the best way she could, I suppose. He still doesn't get a free pass to act like a wild animal and call them bitches.

Hell nah she didnt handle that well.

 

[Black]

I cant stand my ex sometimes, but if he needs something and I have it, he can get it. We have that type of relationship bc I still consider him a friend. I can get whatever I need from him if he has it also.

 

[Goldie]

Who cares what they need the money for, if they're good for it, fuck it.

 

[AP4.0]

$100 for some steve maddens?

 

[Loquacious]

That is possible, yes.

If an ex is struggling with bills or needs help paying for something or an emergency was happened, I get it.

If an ex wants spending money for something and hits up their ex, who is involved with someone else, that's a boundary problem.

Idk about you but even my female friends, I don't hit them up saying "can I have $100 for these Steve Madden shoes? I wanna treat myself" and expect them to give it. That dynamic is unusual.

If they have that relationship with the ex, then it ain't a problem. It's their money.

 

[Chi-Town B]

That ex better hit up their family or friends for money cause if they come asking me I'll laugh in their damn face.

 

[Loquacious]

Y'all will give a homeless person money before an ex that you actually know. Do you ask the homeless person, what they are using the money for?

 

[Loquacious]

that isn't a problem but if whomever they're seeing isn't comfortable with their partner having that dynamic with an ex, it isn't a problem if they leave either.

It isn't.

 

[Black]

Hell nah she didnt handle that well.

She didn't handle that well at all. I said she handled it the best way she could. She obv has no control over these kids and the kids have no discipline. I don't like the fact that she asked that guy to stop recording and he just cont'd chanting "World starrr". This was embarrassing and sad to watch.

 

[Goldie]

Y'all will give a homeless person money before an ex that you actually know. Do you ask the homeless person, what they are using the money for?

Exactly. niggas telling on themselves and don't even see it

 

[Loquacious]

"My boo" could mean either he is my man or we are kinda getting serious or just a nigga I'm kicking it with.

The two former, I will let him know what's the deal and based off his response or how he feels, that's when the money will be given to the ex or not.

The latter, the ex getting the money.

 

[GNS]

What would you do if you were the grandparent

 

[AP4.0]

 

[Black]

This is so white and corny.

 

[Loquacious]

I see you skipped my example too. If you hit up your girlfriends and said "I wanna go to Barbados next month, can you give me some cash sis?", would that be normal within your friend circle?

That's an assumption. A homeless person is evidently in need. if an ex says they're in need and someone gives them money, I wouldn't fault them for that. I wouldn't ask if they'd gotten proof of bank statements and unpaid bills before they paid them.

If an ex made it clear that they don't need but want the money, yeah it's that person's money but I have a right to change my opinion of them based on it. just like I might change my opinion of a guy if he mentions spending his last cash on a sports car he couldn't afford. it's his money but I'm entitled to my perception.

I don't ask for money unless I'm desperately in need. I'm never desperately in need of money to take a vacation or buy new shoes or whatever. The vacation and shit can wait until I can afford it.

My friends can ask me for money though. I'm good for it, if I got it. I've been asked for money for several things.