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BHL said:
I laughed too AP LMAO!! I guess my random postings can seem like I'm experiencing overly exaggerated highs/lows but honestly, Its the timing of my posts. I'm pretty emotionally balanced.
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So stop posting just the highlights and post regular stuff so you won't be judged(this is a joke but there is truth in every joke)
 
BNE said:
@BHL if it happens with regularity, it might be time to get intervention sis. going to a dark place often doesn't have to be a part of your life.

I don't think anyone's labeled her.
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AP21 said:
how did you come to this conclusion?
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Lurker10 said:
I personally don't believe in those labels or tags. I think people are always trying to make you fit into something. She may just be moody. Why do we need a bigger term for that. Where people bipolar before they came up with the term or are people bipolar because of the term?
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Im just reading what was presented. Asking about ups and downs is pretty classic Bipolar. I'm not saying she is, I was just asking if that's what yall are getting at is all
 
i aint getting at nothing b/c im not qualified to speak on that

if she having a rough time, i'll just offer some general advice mixed with some personal experience
 
BHL said:
Yesterday was a really dark day for me:( I literally sat in my closet in cried most of it smh I really hate when I get so deep into my dark place it takes hours to get out of it......
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How often does this happen?
 
I think I'm emotionally and mentally fucked....

I just think I'm self aware and responsible enough to understand the importance of self control....

Plus my little family keeps me going....

But yea, if I lost them....I'd stop giving a fuck immediately
 
King Du said:
I think I'm emotionally and mentally fucked....

I just think I'm self aware and responsible enough to understand the importance of self control....

Plus my little family keeps me going....

But yea, if I lost them....I'd stop giving a fuck immediately
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I think that last one would challenge anyone's beliefs and feelings. It's amazing how much a good partner and family can change you positively.
 
BNE said:
true. no better motivation than loved ones. i will say that it's better to have reached a place ur happy with before planting ur roots. altho I know life doesn't always work out that way.
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For me I was heading on the path before our relationship started so she was just the master piece so to speak but I am not sure my path would have developed so far if she or someone very much like her wasn't with me. Then when our son came it was blatantly obvious I was moving the right way.
 
Bruh, I was literally on a path of destruction. Not like I was depressed or nothing....I just didn't have anything in life to really be passionate about...

Meeting my wife was different experience, cuz she was like the first person I ever dated who was legit concerned about me and bothered with me running the streets....

The chicks before her either didn't care, or I didn't care enough about them to listen...

But the first time I told her i loved her was cuz I didn't want her to leave while I had to step out for some crazy shit one night. She was just going to leave out with me....But I was like naw stay I'll be right back...

She was like why?...I thought about it for a second and told her i loved her....

It was weird at first, but i just started living more careful and with purpose because someone I cared about actually cared about me too....it was just different
 
Kandy Pants said:
I'm at work though. It wouldn't be fair to my partner.
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