How am I contradicting. It is two separate things. Past vs present. I am saying it would be hard for me to meet someone that is currently doing either of the two because of what attracks me to a person. I also didn't say I would judge solely on that basis. It would be hard for someone currently engaged in that activity to be attractive to me. That is not a judgement. It would be more about the things that come along with those lifestyle and not the lifestyle that I have a problem with. You can't be married to me and sleep with other men. Fact not judgement. You can't be married to me and dance and take your clothes off for other people. Again fact not judgement. You can't be a man and be by wife. Again fact not judgement. There is a difference between facts and judging people.
Again, it is contradictory. You can't say "how can yall judge someone for their past" and in the next breath say "I chick that strips wouldn't attract me". Like you said, how can you judge a woman for making money in a way that's not doing any harm to someone?