The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
Full disclosure
had something similar happen with my oldest last year lol.
My lady was doing like a house deep clean. Went to my daughter room to grab her bedding to wash and found HER rabbit under the pillow.
Wife has the convo with her and basically she was curious about sex and her body....which my wife didnt discourage at all. Biggest problem she had was she didnt talk to her first lol...its kinda wierd to use someone else's sex toy...its like using someone else's tooth brush lol.
But Its much better than experimenting with one of these dusty, musty ass lil niggas out here.
I thought the shit was hilarious...but as a father I didnt shame her or go off. In my house we have and encourage open communication and the “do what I say cause I said so” is not a thing in the way we parent.
How old is your oldest?
Sidenote: Cosign being against the "do what I say cause I said so." My in-laws raised their kids like that and sometimes get pissy with us because our kids don't always just bow to authority. We promote respect, so my kids always address their grandparents with respect. But sometimes they will ask "Why?" when given instructions they don't understand. My wife and I explain and hold them accountable from that point on. My in-laws just get mad every time they are questioned and hit my wife with the "We didn't raise you that way" shit. It's annoying as hell.