The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
I understand what you're saying. In the context of a sexual relationship though makes it different because ain't no potential child or std coming out of a business deal so the stakes for dealing with somebody you claim to hate are much different. I never said that personality types have to match to for people to have a sexual attraction. Its really as simple as if a person claims to not like something but continues to engage with it then it's either one of 2 things. Either they're stupid or they really don't dislike it as much as they think or pretend to. I can understand the concept of something and still think it's dumb to partake in and that's what this is.
I agree 100% that the possibility of pregnancy makes it stupid and reckless to have sex with people you don't like.
The rest of what you're saying just seems more like you doubling down on your inability to accept that some people can like the sex and not the person they have sex with.