Now???
How about for decades. Wasn't neither the man or a woman engaging in a one night stand back in the 70's wondering if this individual they were finna fuck was gonna fulfill their wants and needs as it pertains to a relationship. Nah, they wanted to fuck, so they fucked. It's been times I said some slick shit to a chick at the club, went out to the ride, smashed in the back seat, then went back in the club. I was attracted to her, she was attracted to me, we wanted to fuck, so we fucked and went on with the rest of the night.
Shit ain't even hard to wrap your head around. That's like thinking niggas spend time getting to know a hooker before handing her $40 to smash or whatever.