SOME ABW Men apparently diss black women: thread about passport bros again

[konceptjones]

This from someone that posts dudes in a basement speaking for hours?

I ain't wanna be the one that said it, but yeah... I stay asking for notes on @deadeye 's videos.

 

[Freshb651]

The 2nd part is crazy to me.

I dont want to get into a debate of what a good woman is or a womans role and all tbat.

I just want to make the point thats its wild to me that a mfer would disrespect american women by calling them a bunch of shit including gold diggers to go overseas and get with women thats only with them cause of the currency rate.

Seems to me like they just couldnt stick out in competition here and so they using all these excuses to justify sticking out in poor countries cause they get paid in dollars and not local currencies.

Even if someone was going to "stick out" in another country why does that matter to you ? People have been traveling since forever and now that it's Black Males doing it it's a problem ?

 

[AZTG]

Even if someone was going to "stick out" in another country why does that matter to you ? People have been traveling since forever and now that it's Black Males doing it it's a problem ?

Matter to me is a strong word.

We on a forum, theres a thread, i have an opinion, i post it. When the thread is closed, i dont have a single thought or care or matter about any passport bro shit.

Just like my opinion dont matter to you as soon as you close this thread.

Ill make it 100% clear. Ive never had a single thought of any passport bro shit outside of this thread.

Thats how little any of this matters to me.

Hope that makes you feel better my bro.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Thing is, and I said this a week or so ago, the passport dudes aren't the ones who initiated the hostility.


They were pretty much just minding their business and talking about their experiences travelling.


It wasn't until people started accusing them of being pedophiles that they finally decided to fire back.


If I'm not mistaken, that's a form of gaslighting.


Poking and prodding at somebody..............trying to provoke them..............and then playing the victim and making it seem like they were the ones who started it when they respond in kind.

Nah, they was on the net talking about American women ain't shit before they got accused of being pedophiles. Those crazy accusations have more or less been a result of some American women getting made that some dudes are walking away from them.

 

[deadeye]

Nah, they was on the net talking about American women ain't shit before they got accused of being pedophiles. Those crazy accusations have more or less been a result of some American women getting mad that some dudes are walking away from them.

Exactly.

 

[loud-ninja]

There's 2 separate issues here.


One, is people need to stop going out of their way to broadcast everything they're doing.


Thing is, it's not just about them wanting attention............it's about them getting paid for their content.


If the money wasn't there, I doubt dude would be talking about this stuff the way that he is.


Second, all the backlash these dudes are receiving kind of proves their point about the bullshit they have to deal with in the states.


Ironically, it also proves that they can't even escape the bullshit in the states by going overseas.


Dudes are going out of their way to get away from certain people.............yet, the people they're trying to get away from still find a way to interject themselves into their lives.


Let that marinate.

On page 7, there is a video of dude saying he got reported to the cops by some of the local women. The same video he said the american women love criminals. So the backlash doesnt seem it is just from the states

 

[deadeye]

On page 7, there is a video of dude saying he got reported to the cops by some of the local women. The same video he said the american women love criminals. So the backlash doesnt seem it is just from the states

I'm not saying it's just from the states.


I'm saying it started in the states and spread from there.


Basically, the overseas women not only became aware of the videos the passport dudes were putting out.


They also found out about the videos coming out of the states that were critical of the passport dudes.


And probably realized they caught some strays in the process when a lot of the criticism indirectly classified them as impoverished streetwalkers.


The overseas women aren't comfortable with that stigma, so now they're starting to turn on the passport cats to distance themselves from that perception.

 

[SeaSnake]

It don’t help tho that some if the countries do deal with sex tourism. Thailand and Brazil. Shit creepy

 

[deadeye]

Speaking of videos, this just came out yesterday:

 

[deadeye]

Here's a shorter 12 minute video that directly deals with the young man at the center of this controversy:

 

[Mr.LV]

They got him on the news over here

 

[GNS]

Ugh, black people can never keep shit in house mayne

Fucking hell

Sex tourism always been a fucking thing but here go these niggaz in the news putting each other down

 

[ymwito]

From my experience.

1.My Great Grandmother on my momma side had 16 kids.She was very much what many would stay traditional. I mean she was born in 1906. While I never met my great grandfather. From what I understand he had an alcohol addiction and died early. Left my Granny to take care of the family, which she did.

2. My grandma, never got married, had one child at age of 16( my mom). Was kinda forced to stay home and take care of her brothers and sisters. My gma was extremely independent, never saw her with a man.

3. My momma was extremely independent as well. But she made sacrifices that i did not see my dad make. She change her career from business management to becoming a school teacher, so she could fulllfill the mother role easier. My dad pursued his own business.

4. My great grandmother on my daddy side past away before I met her. But she had 5 kids , was on government assistance and my Great Granddaddy wasn't an active person in the family. My daddy said he met him once. My dad was raised by his aunts.

Growing up the amount of women I saw on they boss shit was in my face and on repeat.

I say all that because many black females have grown up seeing 3 generations or more of Black Woman in American doing things women in other countries or continents may not have had to do.

Culture and the collective behavior or trend of a sect of people does not happen over night.

All my life I have seen black american females try to balance taking care of they family , they man and do things they want outside of being a mom and a wife.

Understanding the subconscious environment in which a black american female grows up in is important and often dismissed .

And while she may want change or is open to the fact that she may not need to think or behave like what she has seen. The mindset shift and trust she has to have in a black man is alot (something she may not ever have seen before) and is so hard to cultivate at first. And if she been raped or sexual abused by black men...whew it's alot.

All due respect:
1. Many black women are super heroes because they choose to be.

2. They choose to be superheroes because they don’t date nor have sex with a long term marriage purpose. There is almost no vetting at
a.community level (we admire entertainers more than lawyers, 9 to 5s are seen as boring), b.parental level (we’re all about “happiness”) c.nor personal level (“marry before you carry” isn’t a thing in our community)

3. As I said previously, when things get tough because of poor partner choices, black women have had a history of choosing welfare/government aid over their men

4. Many of you don’t realize that by dissing the passport bros, you’re actually disrespecting all the women who live in the countries they go too. You’re actually doing to these women what the passport bros are doing to you, e.g. calling them desperate and uneducated, which is worse because they obviously outnumber you.

 

[Royal]

All due respect:

1. Many black women are super heroes because they choose to be.

2. They choose to be superheroes because they don’t date nor have sex with a long term marriage purpose. There is almost no vetting at
a.community level (we admire entertainers more than lawyers, 9 to 5s are seen as boring), b.parental level (we’re all about “happiness”) c.nor personal level (“marry before you carry” isn’t a thing in our community)

3. As I said previously, when things get tough because of poor partner choices, black women have had a history of choosing welfare/government aid over their men

4. Many of you don’t realize that by dissing the passport bros, you’re actually disrespecting all the women who live in the countries they go too. You’re actually doing to these women what the passport bros are doing to you, e.g. calling them desperate and uneducated, which is worse because they obviously outnumber you.

This may be your experience, however in my community and immediate family none of the women were on government assistance. They all had business and received an education

Marriage was absolutely valued and upheld even in toxic/ violent circumstances. Marriage and family are highly valued . But this history of black marriage is not the same as white people. Laws were put into place to prevent it.
Marriage for white females in america was and still is about money. Black love here in America was stolen...like this a whole different conversation but naw your point sounds like a perspective of a white person with no black experience or a very young black person with only one perspective.


The majority of individuals receiving welfare are white females. The optics may lead you to believe that an overwhelming amount of Black women are single and on government assistance. It was actually a practice for black men and women to purposely received government assistance and use loopholes to get whatever resources they needed for everyone. (See video)

Black woman didn't choose government over the black man. Many men were killed, murdered, locked up and or off to war/in the military.

Nobody dissing these women. You didn't read my OP.

You think all black woman look and act like what the media has shown you. I disagree with all your points, and many of you ( men who think like this) are disrespectful to the womb that carried you. Your posts shows your mindset and how you see black women. With all due respect, you sound like a cac.

 

[ymwito]

This may be your experience, however in my community and immediate family none of the women were on government assistance. They all had business and received an education

Marriage was absolutely valued and upheld even in toxic/ violent circumstances. Marriage and family are highly valued . But this history of black marriage is not the same as white people. Laws were put into place to prevent it.
Marriage for white females in america was and still is about money. Black love here in America was stolen...like this a whole different conversation but naw your point sounds like a perspective of a white person with no black experience or a very young black person with only one perspective.


The majority of individuals receiving welfare are white females. The optics may lead you to believe that an overwhelming amount of Black women are single and on government assistance. It was actually a practice for black men and women to purposely received government assistance and use loopholes to get whatever resources they needed for everyone. (See video)

Black woman didn't choose government over the black man. Many men were killed, murdered, locked up and or off to war/in the military.

Nobody dissing these women. You didn't read my OP.

You think all black woman look and act like what the media has shown you. I disagree with all your points, and many of you ( men who think like this) are disrespectful to the womb that carried you. Your posts shows your mindset and how you see black women. With all due respect, you sound like a cac.

Why are you bringing white women into the conversation? There you go, deflecting accountability again. None of the stats you mentioned are relevant to the point being made. Many black women have chosen the single independent government assisted lifestyle over working with the very men they have chosen to lay down with. We're literally the least married group, I don't know why you have to fight me on this. On a balance of probabilities, marriage is not a requirement for neither sex nor childbearing in our community.

I speak from experience, including my own, when I say that American black women have been valuing family less and less over the last generations, whilst glorifying futilities (money fame and status). The silent majority that values family and legacy remains invisible as it is constantly bullied by a very loud Cardi B like group. Re-building your brand as a group won't be done by canceling lames on the internet, it will be done by CHECKING your fellow sisters. But I bet you won't do that, you'd rather get mad at a few normal men who just discovered that they could date out. Newsflash: higher status black men have known and practiced this dating out thing forever.

I personally gave preference to EVERY single American black woman I crossed paths with. Guess what happened? Entitlement, shallowness, and competitiveness in the home. If a man only gets to meet 10 American black women in his life, gives them absolute priority over other groups, yet they display those unattractive traits, what is he supposed to do, wait until the 11th one shows up? Do you know how rare an occurrence that is? Although I stated that black men had more dating prospects outside of their group than black women do (meaning we can date different races easier), they don't have the same number of mating options overall. So at one point, yes, I understand that some men abdicate. Because you won't check each other.

On another note, I was very specific when mentioning AMERICAN black women. I have been blessed with a more global environment, and I can tell you that the same way you think that not all AMERICAN black women embody this so-called stereotype, MOST black women do not embody it whatsoever.

 

[SeaSnake]

Bruh why would they choose low as government assistance over the income of another adult?

 

[ymwito]

C

Bruh why would they choose low as government assistance over the income of another adult?

From experience:
- one maintains the illusion of being a boss / entrepreneur
- one allows you to pursue “happiness” and widen your options in case you end up “bossing up”
- one looks more temporary than the other

 

[Royal]

Why are you bringing white women into the conversation? There you go, deflecting accountability again. None of the stats you mentioned are relevant to the point being made. Many black women have chosen the single independent government assisted lifestyle over working with the very men they have chosen to lay down with. We're literally the least married group, I don't know why you have to fight me on this. On a balance of probabilities, marriage is not a requirement for neither sex nor childbearing in our community.

I speak from experience, including my own, when I say that American black women have been valuing family less and less over the last generations, whilst glorifying futilities (money fame and status). The silent majority that values family and legacy remains invisible as it is constantly bullied by a very loud Cardi B like group. Re-building your brand as a group won't be done by canceling lames on the internet, it will be done by CHECKING your fellow sisters. But I bet you won't do that, you'd rather get mad at a few normal men who just discovered that they could date out. Newsflash: higher status black men have known and practiced this dating out thing forever.

I personally gave preference to EVERY single American black woman I crossed paths with. Guess what happened? Entitlement, shallowness, and competitiveness in the home. If a man only gets to meet 10 American black women in his life, gives them absolute priority over other groups, yet they display those unattractive traits, what is he supposed to do, wait until the 11th one shows up? Do you know how rare an occurrence that is? Although I stated that black men had more dating prospects outside of their group than black women do (meaning we can date different races easier), they don't have the same number of mating options overall. So at one point, yes, I understand that some men abdicate. Because you won't check each other.

On another note, I was very specific when mentioning AMERICAN black women. I have been blessed with a more global environment, and I can tell you that the same way you think that not all AMERICAN black women embody this so-called stereotype, MOST black women do not embody it whatsoever.

what? this paragraph does not makes...lol

You can't follow your own talking points lol. You talking in circles

You brought up government assistance in the USA. The stats and white women have everything to do with that lol

If you read the thread white women have been mentioned in comparison to black american women. As well as international women.

Cardi B is married to a black man...they both american....so I don't understand this point

The OP was made by me, go read before you step to me. Cus your wrong and loud.

 

[Northside7]

Ugh, black people can never keep shit in house mayne

Fucking hell

Sex tourism always been a fucking thing but here go these niggaz in the news putting each other down

Black people like to talk too damn much. Always have to say what we're doing or plan on doing.

 

[ymwito]

You can't follow your own talking points lol. You talking in circles

Not sure what you mean but you're not making any valid points here. Plus your opinion clearly doesn't affect me, unlike passport bros who apparently keep you from sleeping at night because you know that deep down you would only qualify for these kinds of men.

You brought up government assistance in the USA. The stats and white women have everything to do with that lol

Yes, for BLACK women in the USA. Your point?

If you read the thread white women have been mentioned in comparison to black american women. As well as international women.

So you're responding to a point that I didn't make. Great. Who's confused and talking in circles again?

Cardi B is married to a black man...they both american....so I don't understand this point

Of course you wouldn't understand. And I know you wouldn't understand what's wrong with Cardi B either.

The OP was made by me, go read before you step to me. Cus your wrong and loud.

Congratulations on being an OP maker lol. Want a cookie?

You're literally making these passport bros points: shallow, loud, rude, unaccountable and combative. Even on a forum smh