I'm still lost as to what the point of the question
You keep asking about these super extreme examples
I can't just stop loving my wifeLet me ask you this:
If you stop loving your wife, would she still love you??
I don't love my wife like her father does...The point of the question is why is that a female is quoted for wanting a man like her father and have that love that her father gave her, but a man is look down (in a slight sense) when he states he wants a woman like his mother and the love like his mother gave him?
"I aint you mama" why you can't be my mama though, not her in a sense but you know? but broadcast those qualities that a son's mama shown to him
I would give her verbatim the same answer....a female is quoted for wanting a man like her father and have that love that her father gave her,
the thing with females referencing their father is b/c prior to getting married, their father provides a sense of security and comfort
she wants that from you
you gon spank her when she get mouthy like her dad did or nah?
I would give her verbatim the same answer....
I ain't supposed to love her like that.
As young Kodak once quipped
She call me Daddy, but I ain't her motherfucking father...
the thing with females referencing their father is b/c prior to getting married, their father provides a sense of security and comfort
she wants that from you
you gon spank her when she get mouthy like her dad did or nah?
Cuz I'm not her father.But if that's the best love that she's gotten and been around, then why wouldn't you want to love her like her Daddy is doing or did??
Naw you definitely don't have it right.But isn't security and comfort all wrapped up in the Love that her daddy is giving her??
She wants a man like her daddy, everything you said, but exclude the love from the father?? The dad's love (with all that you said wrapped inside of that) is what she wants from her bf/husband. The way her daddy expressed that to her and made her feel with his love
Am I making sense?? Help me out if I'm not
So again, what's wrong with a dude wanting from his s/o that same love and affection that his mother shares with him as a son? Especially with dudes that come from single mothers
Why does it have to be anything short of this??
Cuz I'm not her father.
I'm willing to love her, but it's different. It's going to be a totally different kind of love all together
Naw you definitely don't have it right.
People are only capable of expressing the kind of love they feel... You can't copy some one else's love..... That's not love..
Love you individual and personal... It originated from the bond of those two specific people. You don't love any two people the same.. Its different from person to person.
They love you their way, imma love you my way....
Every body different bruh, that means everybody love differently
Naw you definitely don't have it right.
People are only capable of expressing the kind of love they feel... You can't copy some one else's love..... That's not love..
Love you individual and personal... It originated from the bond of those two specific people. You don't love any two people the same.. Its different from person to person.
They love you their way, imma love you my way....
Every body different bruh, that means everybody love differently
YesIf her father dies, RIP, then that love that she received, those things, joy moments when he did what he did for her dies with him??
Yes
I am not her father nor do I aspire to be anything like him.
I love him, but I do not wish to play the role in her lifr that he did.
He loves her with everything he has, and he definitely loves her his way.
But I love her my way. My way is completely different than his, and will always be that way. When he's gone, he's gone. I'm still going to love her my way. So I expect her to always love me her way.
I don't want a second mother under any circumstances. Wife and mother are completely different in every way as they should be.