Seriously though, why do so many black men encourage women to get diabetes, hypertension and all the horrible diseases just to look thick?

[PlantainChips]

I’m waiting for an answer.


And I say this as a thick, “once cheeseburger away” woman my damn self. For example, I wasn’t able to go to the gym this month cos I was so busy. I gained a bit of weight and now the attention is getting too much.

 

[Loquacious]

What kind of niggas you running into? I never had a man encourage me to get any of those.

 

[PlantainChips]

What kind of niggas you running into? I never had a man encourage me to get any of those.

Obviously they are not going to overtly say, “get diabetes for me”. However the obsession many black men have for thickness and BBW women is what drives the desire plenty of women feel to be “thick” at the cost of their health.

 

[Eyerone]

How did niggas get blamed for this

 

[Loquacious]

Idk. I’ve been both fat and much slimmer and never had anyone encourage me to be “thicker” for their liking. If anything they making these females get BBLs.

 

[Loquacious]

How did niggas get blamed for this

Yes it ain’t making sense.

 

[mryounggun]

What kind of niggas you running into? I never had a man encourage me to get any of those.

Thats because it doesn’t happen.

 

[PlantainChips]

How did niggas get blamed for this

There is literally a BBW thread on this website celebrating obese women.

 

[SeaSnake]

You mean why we like girls with fat asses and big titties or why some bbws?

 

[PlantainChips]

Thats because it doesn’t happen.

It doesn’t happen because she didn’t read my title properly. Jesus Christ! Reading comprehension people!

 

[Loquacious]

Are BBW women not supposed to be celebrated?

Also, as a fat woman, I’m fat because of me. Not because some man said “fatten up cause I like em thick”

 

[PlantainChips]

You mean why we like girls with fat asses and big titties or why some bbws?

BBWs mostly.

 

[SeaSnake]

I mean it ain’t like Lizzo or s deeply loved by the fellas compared to say Janelle Monae

 

[mryounggun]

I’m starting to see a pattern.

 

[PlantainChips]

Are BBW women not supposed to be celebrated?

Also, as a fat woman, I’m fat because of me. Not because some man said “fatten up cause I like em thick”

Ok so we’re getting to the real. You’re being defensive. Cos I didn’t attack you but you’re taking it as an attack. I clearly did not say any of the things you are accusing me of saying. It’s not that deep and no one is attacking you for being fat. Let’s all take a deep breath and relax.

 

[PlantainChips]

I mean it ain’t like Lizzo or s deeply loved by the fellas compared to say Janelle Monae

The BBW page and many of the women posted in the Candy Shop beg to differ

 

[Loquacious]

I’m starting to see a pattern.

And you thought she was me. I’m slowly about to take that as an insult.

 

[Loquacious]

I mean it ain’t like Lizzo or s deeply loved by the fellas compared to say Janelle Monae

They do Lizzo so bad.

 

[PlantainChips]

I’m starting to see a pattern.

Lmao. You’re still mad cos I called you out and following me from thread to thread saying negative things, People just take this internet thing sooo seriously. Just put me on ignore. Lmao.

 

[Eyerone]

There is literally a BBW thread on this website celebrating obese women.

That’s diff


Nobody is encouraging women to be that size; people are just appreciating their beauty at that size.