@5th Letter
this is how i see things...and please feel free to tell me im wrong or correct me.
I am always open to correction and criticism but at least i said something is how i see it.
anyway....
traveling across the planet i see the damage white people have done to black people or all cultures.
I lived it in america, i seen it in africa and Im living it it in europe and saw it in asia.
These people have told the world we aint shit...nothing but athletes and rappers. and every other can have criminal added to it.
so while people look up to white people...they feel white people bring prosperity and economic wealth..even if they have to give up part of their culture they are willing to do it. In europ and asia...most of the heads of companies are white americans. they set the precedent how and how is looked at as smart and acceptable.
these are things i witnessed.
Now in my industry...my wife and i have started to realize. something alot of black people dont see.
Growing up, all the images on tv was of very wealthy and smart white people and dumb ass and poor black people. so of course the image is what we think we are or could ever be. Thank God my parents taught me that i could be more...same with wifey.
So one day we sat and talked about this and realized.....damn near all the white people we ran into in these companies are dumb as rocks. Like real dumb stupid type people. they have the access to the job because alot of times we dont know about them. But the white people...are just talking a good game and struggling thru work. A guy in my wifes group got a promotion while having bad marks 10 months out the year. But he talked a good game to get the promotion but he couldnt do the job. he felt he will learn when he gets there. Why did he even go for the job if he knew he couldnt do it?
Now when we are in Charlotte...we run into many very smart and highly educated black people. If you listen to them....they are smart as hell.
My wife tired to recruit a few of them but they said they cant do the job. She tells them she will help them..but then its convincing them into moving. she even offered substantial pay increases...but the hesitation was enough for her to just give up.
And i have shared my stories about trying to convince my people to go for or start/create opportunities.
heres what we both came to think: Alot of black people need to be convinced they can while alot of white people need to be convinced they cant.
I understand how the system can wear on people. On those who try......but i myself have ran into too many people who dont even want to try but live off of someone elses failed attempt.
So while the person who tried can say the system held me back...how can the person who didnt say the same?
this is where ...apart of ..you cant blame white people comes in. some of us cant use it...if it didnt happen.
then you have the mindframe that comes into play.
from back on the IC to here...how often did i try to help people or have to convince people to at least try but niggas come with a defeated attitude?
No one wants to start a cupcake business, why? if its successful, i dont see the problem. then came a bunch of bullshit excuses. the way i see it...a business is a business. theres a thread here with damn near every person saying business is not for everyone.
why is it that other cultures see it the opposite way? I get what people in america say about the immigrants coming and getting loans....but dont niggas know doe boys who need to clean loot or those NBA guys who throw money around in the club only for strippers to go buy a car and more hair. Are we investing in us? but thats another thing. we dont trust us with our money but we trust the white dudes who rob the NBA players with millions.
shit my business is nothing more than fixing fucking machines. im a repair man. i can dress up the title to say lab asset manager...but im a repair man.
but telling people what i do.....they think im smart as hell and want to do the same as me but without the work i put in. we have too many people wanting to be the boss level out the gate without the building up to it. when i keep it real with my people.....they dont want to hear it. and the fact of the matter is...im not smarter than you or any other black person. i just utilized what im good at. i like fixing shit. So i actually hate when people call me a genius ...because thats not the case and it also makes it seem like i had some sort of advantage.
the shit is a mindframe of self sabotage. wait...no...self sabotage would mean you actually did something....this is a mindframe of low self esteem.
And i always come back to this....no hate for my latinos.....but i be damned if an uneducated dominican is going to out hustle me. everywhere i got i run into dominican people looking for opportunities to feed their family.
how the fuck is an island of maybe 10 million people spread out across the world more than black americans? we are the higher educated. but are we mentally trapped?
and the thing is.....these white people are dumb as broken windows...just useless...but no is there to challenge them to be smart. so ill stop here with all that cause i can go on for a while on this.
we have all we need to be what we can be.
if niggas are ready to buss they guns for nothing....do we not have soldiers who can protect our hoods from outsiders?
we have enough people on this site that if they tried can go very far. but again....that thread .....business aint for everyone.
who the fuck told them that? how do you know?
cant comes after tried.
please tell me where this came from?
images and verbiage. watching shows where we aint shit but entertainment...guess what people think they can only do? and if they cant do that....fuck everything.
White supremacy. a term that means i am above you and its nothing you can do about it.
are we building up our people enough? do we put the same energy in building them up as we do tearing them down?
sad thing is i see this all over......in many continents.
alot of people are defeated at young ages...the parents need to be the ones to build them up. and the parents word needs to be final.
the world is huge...if we dont succeed in one place.....we may need to relocate. we can work as a unit within and across the planet.
its a chinatown in almost every major city. just saying...it can be done and we see the blueprint. us not needing a blueprint or wanting to be different has gotten us nowhere to this point.
so to answer your other question......we have all we need....and like you say....we need a code. black before anything.
before religion, culture, sex, money...whatever.
if we dont trust each other...we are already doomed.
sorry for getting type happy.....but i cut alot out..lol.
but this is just me and how i see it.