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Azlyn said:
I don't have a problem with dudes approaching me but you see one thing you gonna learn bout me is that I haven't dated in a really long time but by choice of my own but I think I do need to change my ways cos what if I miss out on something cos I waited to long but I find some dudes like girls they have to go after and some like the girls that approach them and let them know they wanted... Lol was easy when I was just to myself
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The successful rate of a woman approaching is higher than a guy's imo.

Unless you're belligerent, or give off a nasty vibe, then you're more than likely to walk away with the guys number (or he gets yours).
 
InstagramusPrime360 said:
The successful rate of a woman approaching is higher than a guy's imo.

Unless you're belligerent, or give off a nasty vibe, then you're more than likely to walk away with the guys number (or he gets yours).
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This is hectic asf and yeah I'm sure you are right on that but I'm not looking for just sex either so its a huge gamble is all...
 
Azlyn said:
This is hectic asf and yeah I'm sure you are right on that but I'm not looking for just sex either so its a huge gamble is all...
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But who's talkin about sex tho? Not EVERY guy that approaches a woman wants strictly sex.

You can't assume that's his intention off the bat.
 
InstagramusPrime360 said:
But who's talkin about sex tho? Not EVERY guy that approaches a woman wants strictly sex.

You can't assume that's his intention off the bat.
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I know this but some might take a woman approaching a dude as a easy female and it's just confusing because I have had several dudes approach me for the mere fact I was probably the only female not pushing myself on them...
 
KandyPants said:
I know myself and what I'm capable of. Don't let me really really really be feeling a dude either. Sex is going to happen and I will be the initiator.
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See that's what I'm talmbout.

My thing is this...you're not out there giving your pussy to every male you see, then why is it an issue for a woman to let a man know up front what she wants?

I mean I know society is partly to blame.
 
InstagramusPrime360 said:
See that's what I'm talmbout.

My thing is this...you're not out there giving your pussy to every male you see, then why is it an issue for a woman to let a man know up front what she wants?

I mean I know society is partly to blame.
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Exactly. I've came across many guys and mass majority have never even got a skeet taste. I let dudes know from the jump what I want. If they ain't with it, they'll leave and they have. A whole bunch of them. Tell them what you want and you won't have an issue with wondering if he just want the pussy or not.
 
InstagramusPrime360 said:
See that's what I'm talmbout.

My thing is this...you're not out there giving your pussy to every male you see, then why is it an issue for a woman to let a man know up front what she wants?

I mean I know society is partly to blame.
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Don't get me wrong I LOVE SEX as much as anybody and yes if I'm really feeling someone I don't mind letting him know what I want but I gotta have some kinda feeling from him first cos I won't give it out like that...
 
Prime example: this guy I know. If I ever see him, I'm fucking him. Idc idc idc! So there is no need to worry about if he wants sex because I want it and I'm taking it.
The end.
 
Azlyn said:
Don't get me wrong I LOVE SEX as much as anybody and yes if I'm really feeling someone I don't mind letting him know what I want but I gotta have some kinda feeling from him first cos I won't give it out like that...
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Lemme put you on game about guys.

If you wanna know if a guy is feeling you, hold a conversation. That's big indicator.

If you can hold a convo, w/o giving 5 words or less vague answers to his questions, you good. We're not complicated.
 
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InstagramusPrime360 said:
Lemme put you on game about guys.

If you wanna know if a guy is feeling you, hold a conversation. That's big indicator.

If you can hold a convo, send not give 5 words or less vague answers to his questions, you good. We're not complicated.
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Thanks for the input and I'm gonna take all this in and see where it fits with me but one thing a dude needs to know is I do not repeat DO NOT SHARE or play bs games...
 
Some women can not handle rejection. Especially if she is on the hefty size. I ain't desperate. Standards everybody has em.
 
I been rejected before. I've always been the type to go for what I want. If I like a dude he will know in some form or another.

and I'll know if they with it or not sooner or later.
 
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