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OPINION - Should Polygamy Be Legalized?

Should Polygamy Be Legalized?

  • Yes

    Votes: 10 66.7%
  • No

    Votes: 5 33.3%

  • Total voters
    15
Other than the church aspect is there really a difference between plural marriages and polygamy?
Polygamy is men being able to marry multiple women. It doesn't include women having the option to marry multiple men. Or same sex unions.

If ur question is only on whether men should be able to have multiple wives one sidedly, my answer is gonna be wildly different to if u r asking if ppl in general shld be able to marry more than one person (plural marriages).
 
Sorry I didn't specify it. I'm talking about all the polys, polygamy, polygany and polyandry
 
I've visited em n studied them n ur right, they're problematic. But I don't think it's polygamy or polyamory that's the problem. It's the sexist motivations underlying it in certain societies. I'm not saying ours would be free of them but I sincerely don't think it's gonna change much.

If u get right down to it, marriage as we know it is a sexist institution. Within a western context, I see no harm in legalizing plural marriages. If women r just as able to marry 2, tree, fo niggas then that alone changes the power dynamic of men being able to marry multiple women while women can only share a man.

It's iust giving people more options.

N like I said, people are already doing plural marriages in cities near u. They just aren't getting papers to support it. If anything, makin it legal is gonna at least let poly lovers fare better when one of em dies or goes to hospital n they gotta work out relation.



I understand and respect your point of view.
 
i guess i'm just ignorant to the society ills of polygamy....

i thought it was just a lifestyle choice... but race jones got me feeling like that shit will cause societal ruin...

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I understand and respect your point of view.



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There's been studies in those muslim countries where polygamy is common, which found that polygamy causes competition and unequal distribution of the works in household among co-wives. In addition, polygamy generates acrimony among the children and co-wives. It is shown that polygamy has a close link with mental illness between the children and co-wives as well.


well well well what do we have here?
am I finally agreeing with Thetrollking himself?

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What's funny is I cut a nigga off once for getting a second wife without the consent of the 1st chick.

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My ex told me he wanted to "try" polygamy and Im like where are these other women supposed to sleep?

....YOU HAVE A STUDIO APARTMENT KENARD!!!!


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People should have freedom to choose what they want to be in. If all parties are adults and make the decision then why would we say they are wrong. I am not talking about forced anything, I am saying consenting adults. People choose open relationships and all kind of stuff. Because it may not work for me or you doesn't make it bad. I have enough on my plate dealing with one wife I personally could not imagine having 2.
 
What's funny is I cut a nigga off once for getting a second wife without the consent of the 1st chick.

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So you were talking to a nigga that was married and the straw that broke the camels back was not that he got a second wife, but that he didnt tell the first one??
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From the constitution's point of view, I can't think of a good reason to block consenting adults agreeing to an alternative life style.

However, as I probably know slightly more about the reality of polygamy than the average American (I don't want to explain, at least not yet) and what I have seen is it rarely works out well for women, and it's almost always women and daughters who are relegated to the bottom of the relevancy in their own families.
 
So you were talking to a nigga that was married and the straw that broke the camels back was not that he got a second wife, but that he didnt tell the first one??
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Hell nah. He was old af, we was just acquaintance friends.
 
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