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Sometimes you can't vent to a therapist. Its some shit only ya niggas can understand.

I've had this issue. I was sitting there talking to some old white bitch about relationships and shit I didn't actually care about while its was dead bodies and drug shit that was actually fucking with me.

Fuck am I Tony soprano? I'm not talking to you. Shit I know could get me killed or locked up.

I just decided to deal with my shit. It's good days and bad ones. But @AZTG on some fuck shit telling us instead of his mans.
Yea I like my therapist, but I find myself at times having to explain the context of some nigga shit before I can explain why I was bothered by that nigga shit. As crazy as that may seem, but I didnt go to a black doctor because I wanted a reflective viewpoint not influence by the world I grew up in.

So when I was telling her one time I was feeling down and I called my mom and she said go smoke a bone wit ya grandma and talk, and I said..you know..some regular shit.

She was like..uh germs, that's not regular, infact..growing up with both parents in a decent or rather decent household is way more normal than the shit you talk about..

I was like

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Yea I like my therapist, but I find myself at times having to explain the context of some nigga shit before I can explain why I was bothered by that nigga shit. As crazy as that may seem, but I didnt go to a black doctor because I wanted a reflective viewpoint not influence by the world I grew up in.

So when I was telling her one time I was feeling down and I called my mom and she said go smoke a bone wit ya grandma and talk, and I said..you know..some regular shit.

She was like..uh germs, that's not regular, infact..growing up with both parents in a decent or rather decent household is way more normal that they shit you talk about..

I was like

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Say word?

thats why I've always been iffy about it

you can understand brains and human behaviors....but you cant "understand" black life lol

there's just certain shit a stranger from a completely different world cant help you with
 
Yea I like my therapist, but I find myself at times having to explain the context of some nigga shit before I can explain why I was bothered by that nigga shit. As crazy as that may seem, but I didnt go to a black doctor because I wanted a reflective viewpoint not influence by the world I grew up in.

So when I was telling her one time I was feeling down and I called my mom and she said go smoke a bone wit ya grandma and talk, and I said..you know..some regular shit.

She was like..uh germs, that's not regular, infact..growing up with both parents in a decent or rather decent household is way more normal that they shit you talk about..

I was like

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Say word?


thats why I've always been iffy about it

you can understand brains and human behaviors....but you cant "understand" black life lol

there's just certain shit a stranger from a completely different world cant help you with

Yeah. 3 sessions and I was cool on that shit. I'm like you ain't even figure out I'm sitting here bullshitting. You didn't pass the smell test. We wasting both each others time.
 
thats why I've always been iffy about it

you can understand brains and human behaviors....but you cant "understand" black life lol

there's just certain shit a stranger from a completely different world cant help you with
Well, that's the cool thing about a different perspective. If you read the book the six pillars of self esteem you learn that alot of what goes into self esteem isn't what you think it is. Like one of the major effects of self esteem is honesty with oneself. Like when you tell a lie or do some shit and you think no one will know but me. You are effectively telling yourself that everyone else's opinions of your actions matter more than your own. Thus your self esteem effectively is dependent upon the opinion of others.

There ain't nothing racial about that jewel, other than applying the lifestyle of "stunting" to it, and understanding what alot of cats do to live that life and still be insecure and unhappy as fuck. Even though the outside perception is that they got it.
 
Y'all nigga need to go to black therapists, that will solve your problems

Maybe but that costs money. The one I went to was part of a provincial government program. My sister's friend from university just got me through the red tape.

Therapy good for some niggas but if you really can't speak on everything it's a waste of time.
 
Maybe but that costs money. The one I went to was part of a provincial government program. My sister's friend from university just got me through the red tape.

Therapy good for some niggas but if you really can't speak on everything it's a waste of time.
For sure. If you can't open all the way up or you're testing your therapists, it's a waste of yalls time.
I don't know how you Canucks get down, but most health insurance will cover at least a portion
 
For sure. If you can't open all the way up or you're testing your therapists, it's a waste of yalls time.
I don't know how you Canucks get down, but most health insurance will cover at least a portion

Ehh. Free health care means you want to go to a hospital or outreach program you cool but it will take months to a year before you actually talk to someone unless you trying to come out of pocket and pay $125+/hr.
Even with my sister's friend hooking me up I waited 2 months.
 
Ladies of ABW a question for you all. @AP21 could you at some of the ladies that still post here.

In a professional fight next month on ESPN a boxer will be fighting his girlfriend older brother. They both don't like each other. The boyfriend and girl have been dating for about 3 years.

If the boyfriend beats the brakes off the older brother. Would yall be mad? Would you ever feel you could call your big brother for a situation involving your boyfriend after seeing already got beat up? Would it make family dinners and gatherings awkward?

Same question in reverse. If your brother wins the fight and fucks your boyfriend up. Would you throw that in your boyfriend face in an argument? Would you be mad your brother beat the shit out of your boyfriend?
 
Does going to an HBCU mean folks can't challenge your "blackness" or automatically make a person on of "US"?
Yes and no.


Like.... You definitely ain't ignorant to shit, and can't front like you don't know what's going on....

But it's not a complete pass
 
Ladies of ABW a question for you all. @AP21 could you at some of the ladies that still post here.

In a professional fight next month on ESPN a boxer will be fighting his girlfriend older brother. They both don't like each other. The boyfriend and girl have been dating for about 3 years.

If the boyfriend beats the brakes off the older brother. Would yall be mad? Would you ever feel you could call your big brother for a situation involving your boyfriend after seeing already got beat up? Would it make family dinners and gatherings awkward?

Same question in reverse. If your brother wins the fight and fucks your boyfriend up. Would you throw that in your boyfriend face in an argument? Would you be mad your brother beat the shit out of your boyfriend?
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Just ate lunch.
You still an example of money ≠ happiness?
yep...today i was bored as hell.
hit the supermarket, went to buy screws to fix my fan. binged out on house hunter international while making a website and downloading porn all at the same time.
paid for it all with a boniva gold ameican express.

i wasnt happy when i did it.
it was just a normal day.
brought me no joy.

i envy the hard working man who gotta take shit from someone whos making all the money and giving you a fraction to be good.

you got me.

but get off that shit
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Yes and no.


Like.... You definitely ain't ignorant to shit, and can't front like you don't know what's going on....

But it's not a complete pass

I felt it was a no across the board. Just because a person went to an HBCU doesn't mean their blackness can't be challenged and it doesn't automatically make them one of us.

I don't know if you saw my reply to @DOS_patos but that question came from me reading an article about Kamala Harris and one of her friends saying that her blackness can't be questioned and she is automatically one of us because Kamala when to Howard University.

That's some bullshit to me.
 
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