The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
We are discussing the real world, I’m just putting the onus on the people (police) that did a poor job of defusing the situation.
That's fine, but you're basically suggesting that they will be able to defuse every situation, and that's not realistic. I believe the police acted poorly at points in this confrontation, but I also don't see where the guy in this case was giving them a peaceful option. Maybe he was more reasonable before the cam came on, but while it was rolling, he was basically intractable.