Going through a breakup, job stressing me tf out, etc.
Only remedy for break up is time brotha. Just gotta go thru that "detox" period. Shyt sucks. Been thru it and it hurts like a muthafucca.
I dunno what was you break up situation like, whether it was mutual, or she broke it off. But one of the things that got me thru mines, was me continually asking myself
"Is she going thru this same pain as me?" Or "
Is she losing sleep...appetite...mentally stressing as much as I am?" The answer was no. I also prayed to the Almighty to take away that pain and anger I had towards her. Shyt was like a dark cloud lingering over me.
No lie, shortly after I did that...it was like a massive weight got lifted off me. A couple of years later, SHE reached out to me wanting to meet up and talk. I had already moved on with my life of course. At 1st i was gonna turn down the meet up. But when SHE offered to pay for dinner at PF Changs, oh best believe I wasn't gonna turn down a free meal. Lol!
Me and ex just started talkin about how things ended. She apologized, but was surprised by reaction afterwards. I guess she was expecting me to still be angry and go on a diatribe about the break up. Nope. Told her it was all good...left it at that. The hefa actually got a lil annoyed by my response. LOL! Questioning whether or not she wasted her time meeting up. I flat out told her I did carry a LOT of anger towards her for years. Waiting for a moment like this to unleash it. But I told her I had to let it go. It wasn't serving me no purpose.
After I said all that, that's when I knew that all feelings for here was GONE. Shyt felt good like a mofo. Give it time bruh. If y'all end up mending things...cool. If not...that just makes room for your TRUE love to come into ya life.