SeaSnake
OG
Bruh I shared what you wrote already
Breaking News Man kills ex wife,ex girl, then himself in custody battle
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Bruh I shared what you wrote already
SeaSnake
OG
but what blackrain said explains why the family court system might be getting abused tho. So in order to remedy the situation you have to know why and how it came about.
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
Bruh, that's pretty much what you said. You say I'm misinterpreting your intentions but the only justification you've given for that statement was that you were providing context. You've never actually provided any convincing reasoning for how your so-called context would be helpful in solving the problem. You even conceded that the systems have evolved past what they were invented to be.
We don't need to argue over that anymore. You've made your claim about your motivations. I don't really buy your claim. We can just leave it at that.
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
Maybe I missed a post or something, but all he said was that men created the system at a time when women were being discriminated against.
Explain to me how that would help us remedy the system when the woes of the system were never anticipated by those people that created it. From what I've seen, the system continues to be bad because people don't think it's as bad as it is (you yourself said the problems were exaggerated) and because people still cling to the same outdated gender roles (men = provider and women = caregivers). Raising awareness about the system's problems, which is all I was trying to do, might help. Combatting outdated perspectives of the roles men and women play in raising children would help. Blaming men for the original conception of the system doesn't strike me as being very helpful. All of us acknowledge that's true. So what?
Well that's your problem. You're stunting your own ability to see the actual point because for whatever reason you don't "buy my claim". That's a you issue not me or what I'm saying since others seem to have gotten the point just fine.
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
Others agree with you sure, but I don't see where anyone has gotten your point. I've asked multiple times, but so far no one has provided me a substantive answer for how blaming men for the system will help fix it.
Like I said, we all acknowledge men created the shitty system. Ok what now? What perspective does that buy in a discussion about how that system now frequently hurts men and families?
At the end of the day, like I said we can leave it there. I don't really believe your claim, and that's not a problem for me. I don't have to buy it. This is just a debate on a website. If that's that the way the discussion ends, so be it.
deadeye
Warrior
SeaSnake
OG
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
Wow
Just wow
But i need therapy.
anyway……the system is a problem but to weaponize it is twice as bad then to put molestation on it ….we gotta be real.
i can not think I can hurt someone with lies and using the flawed system to hurt them more…I can not think this person at some point won’t try to hurt me. Especially during it for three years. Niggas fight in Walmart for less.
Like i said, Im the only one being honest in here.
deadeye
Warrior
Watch as much.......or as little......as you'd like.
As far as a summary, it's basically an in-depth analysis of the title/topic in the thumbnail.
Black_Samson
OG
You do need therapy.
Empathy is one thing. But you sympathizing.
Injecting your personal situation and allowing those feelings to dictate your stance in this discussion has rendered any argument you had null and void.
Go talk to someone, get that demon off your shoulder before it break your back.
SeaSnake
OG
Lol so we going with her was lied on
SeaSnake
OG
My thing is and blackrain said this as well is where is this concern for black male mental health before shit like this happens? It’s slowly becoming more accepted to seek help I think but it wack when folks talk about something like this and they wanna bring up mens lack of mental health and etc but seem like it’s only brought up after the fact. A lot more people need therapy. No video gonna sway me on this dude. It’s niggas that get lied to about being the father of a kid and they don’t murder folks
SeaSnake
OG
You’re really not tho. Because why you understand this man killing two women but don’t understand why people who floss get robbed. One one you have all the emapathy on the other you say “niggas will never learn”
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
Bruh, it ain't even just black men though. One thing I've really learned about America in general is that a lot of people are fucked up in the head and don't even realize it. American society in itself is poison because we foster the wrong shit in people.
Like if a right winger goes and shoots a left-wing politician, everyone will either be saying that person was crazy or bad, and both might be true. However, if that person is constantly being told that those left-wing politicians are going to take their jobs, take their money, turn their kids gay and transexual, and turn their hometowns into crime ridden cesspools, what does anyone think is going to happen? That's why it's crazy to me that FOXNews can get up their and promote lies and not suffer any consequences.
I don't think it was a mental health issue with this dude though. I think ya'll are right that he was just weak and cowardly. He crumbled under whatever circumstances he was dealing with and went out like a chump.
Elzo69Renaissance
I dare one of you niggas to scream No Diddy!
Custody battle? Shit ain’t more battle after this