It's all a matter of perspective. Are there songs where dudes speak on sexual desires for women or bad experiences with women? Yes. Is that misogyny. I don't know. I wouldn't say it is. That's no worse than the many songs women have talking about getting money out of niggas or bitching about no-good niggas. I wouldn't refer to those songs as misandry. Now if you are talking about Bitches Ain't Shit or Gorilla Pimpin types of songs, then yeah those are misogynistic, but really, how many songs are there out there like that? Yes, dudes can lighten up on the "bitches and hoes" talk in rap, but I feel like you're exaggerating when you say that's an important component of rap.
This is the only part that matters about what you said because it proves my point. You can't say some incendiary shit to start a conversation and then complain about the conversation being about the way you said something rather than what you said. Ya'll are playing a crazy game in here. Several people arguing in favor of what she said already said she could have phrased it better and even gave better examples of what she could have said, and somehow ya'll are simultaneously trying to act like there is nothing wrong with she said. It's silly.
And we can all appeal to analogies to support our side. The cops and cop apologists always excuse the unfair treatment of black people by pointing to the high crime rates and acting like it's ok to treat all black people one way because of the presence of criminals in the black community. I'm sure you know that's ridiculous. So why is it not equally as ridiculous to constantly attack black men, rappers, or whoever else broadly when only a subset of that group are offending parties? Again, you can make the argument that misogyny in rap should be reduced without basically saying that every male rapper is guilty of it.