SeaSnake
OG
You not gonna give up are you, lol.
Never!
You not gonna give up are you, lol.
Dude has produced several marriages, black women have made youtube videos thanking the dude for helping their marriages.
I don't see anything wrong with him wanting black men and black women to live in their reality. He goes in hard on black men, men should wanna work over 60 hours, get in shape, do this, do that, be the better person, make yourself valuable, become a leader, provider etc. He tells black men the truth.
Many of the men took the advice, set goals and got their life together and thank'd the dude.
Crazy thing about it is, I never heard black men attack his character or act hurt, or say that he talked rudely to them when he told them the truth about themselves.
My response is more so from the comments i see in here. I dont follow or watch this cat so im not gonna judge or give an opinion on him.
Yes, there are delusional people. But some people really need to seek real counseling . Tearing down people rarely gets the point across to them. Im willing to bet most of his callers are mentally fragile so probably few will take the verbal bashing as motivation to "do better".
People have their preferences. People tend to figure that out as they get older. Older folks tend to want someone on their financial level because many have experienced dating people who make a lot less than them. If one person is down on their luck or got injured, they want to make sure their partner can maintain both of their lifestyles until the other is back on their feet.
Social media is not reality. That means if you go into a certain thread/site/chat group, looking for a certain group of people that have similar opinions, then that is all you will find. That is when people make generalizations . "all women this", "all men this", "most women/men". When you ask for proof, they pull post from that group. When you go outside, you realize that what they are talking about is not the norm.
These women that some of these dudes talk about, I have trouble running into. Last few dates i went on were females with careers not looking for a dude to take care of them. They just wanted a true partnership. Someone to build together with, love, support, and have some mutual interest. When some women say they dont need a man. Some mean they dont need to depend on a man for their lively hood or their emotional happiness. I applaud all of that and find it attractive. I dont think anyone should have too depend on someone for their lively hood if they can prevent it. If you dont know what makes you happy, why do you think someone else will know what makes you happy. That is when that person needs to take a step back and seek counseling from a pro.
My response is more so from the comments i see in here. I dont follow or watch this cat so im not gonna judge or give an opinion on him.
Yes, there are delusional people. But some people really need to seek real counseling . Tearing down people rarely gets the point across to them. Im willing to bet most of his callers are mentally fragile so probably few will take the verbal bashing as motivation to "do better".
People have their preferences. People tend to figure that out as they get older. Older folks tend to want someone on their financial level because many have experienced dating people who make a lot less than them. If one person is down on their luck or got injured, they want to make sure their partner can maintain both of their lifestyles until the other is back on their feet.
Social media is not reality. That means if you go into a certain thread/site/chat group, looking for a certain group of people that have similar opinions, then that is all you will find. That is when people make generalizations . "all women this", "all men this", "most women/men". When you ask for proof, they pull post from that group. When you go outside, you realize that what they are talking about is not the norm.
These women that some of these dudes talk about, I have trouble running into. Last few dates i went on were females with careers not looking for a dude to take care of them. They just wanted a true partnership. Someone to build together with, love, support, and have some mutual interest. When some women say they dont need a man. Some mean they dont need to depend on a man for their lively hood or their emotional happiness. I applaud all of that and find it attractive. I dont think anyone should have too depend on someone for their lively hood if they can prevent it. If you dont know what makes you happy, why do you think someone else will know what makes you happy. That is when that person needs to take a step back and seek counseling from a pro.
Working over 60 hours hell the fuck nah
Exactly. He says a lot "What's wrong with a regular guy?" "Can you be with a man eating 50k/year" and stuff like that. It's the ones with baggage that think those men are below them that get harsh realities.
I think I made the comparison in here before. It's like if someone's in school to be a teacher, but they won't take a job that pays under $100k. It's not fucked up to tell them they need to change their major if they want that kind of money. But if they want to be a teacher, they need to consider jobs that pay less.
But he starts off by asking them "How much do you want to make?" If they said $40k he'd tell them they're on the right path. Not his fault everyone wants to make 6 figures, and he has to tell them people don't pay that much for teachers.
So lemme get this straight....I as a black woman had a yt channel/sm platform that was gaining popularity telling the world what black men are about under the guise of helping women...and i used these typa images to draw ppl in
Yall giving me a pass cuz I tell the truth using FBI crime statistics and say stuff you agree with....and it's provocative and gets the ppl going? Word?
Not even looking for a response to this cuz it's not a debate.
This thread too much
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Fainted from the stress of the showAyo lol what made him faint
Bruh you quoted my post that jumped this part of the thread off....i quoted a video that was posted about the imagery he uses when black women are the topic to draw views. The video isn't 16 hrs long tho so I see why you paid it no mind...View attachment 527211
Not really defending him, but..........
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I'll admit I haven't gone through all 30 pages of this thread.
First time I've really checked for it since the first 6 pages.
Niggas that watch his videos keep quoting me telling me what he says in the videos when I've made it abundantly clear that's not what my point is....
lol thats a nasty ass screenshot
When you consistently reference and reinforce the angry black woman stereotype to the world as the gateway to your platform, what you say is irrelevant. Just like if I come across a video where the title is BLUE LIVES MATTER alongside images of black men being thugs and criminals....you dont get the opportunity for me to hear what I do and don't agree with cuz I'm not crossing the threshold of watching your content and giving you views.If it's not about his show or him, why are you moving the goal posts talking about something totally different.
Haha, man I was trying to give a good size sample, and didn't want it to look like I was only picking certain ones to show. It looks OK on my screen as long as you don't click it. May be crazy on other phones though.
I hear what you're saying, and get your point. But I'm not sure he really does what's bothering you. I went to youtube, and looked at his recently added videos, and the thumbnails aren't a collection of images painting black women in a bad light and praising other races of women
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oh naw I meant the topics in the screenshot bruh lol