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Race Jones said:
I dont wish to be married. Its always funny how men frame marriage as a man choosing you or picking you 🤣🤣🤣🤣 i dont want to be married. so of course they didnt marry me

it wasnt an option.
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You're not married and have no desire to be. But when a man pops up and gives his opinion to women (that seek him out and ask for his advice) that want to be married, you're going all out to go after him.

Look at how he dresses, he's gay. Look, here's his HS yearbook photo with the clubs he was in. Look he's had 2 divorces. Look i found out what his jobs before this were!

That's a lot of focus for a person you don't care about speaking on a subject you don't care about. But ok...
 
There are not a lot of sane women who wants to walk into their home over the age of 35 and above to an empty house everyday. No way.

A woman will get tired of being a good fuck soon or later and will want to settle down and get married.

Nature is undefeated.

The man got 40 and 50 year old women who are single calling up wishing that they were married and wish that they didn't divorced their husbands.

It's fun sexing and adding body counts to your body in your 20s and early 30s, but life comes at you when you're approaching 40 and you're waking up alone or you're as a woman is still being smutted out at 40

Nature will kick in.
 
Dude has produced several marriages, black women have made youtube videos thanking the dude for helping their marriages.

I don't see anything wrong with him wanting black men and black women to live in their reality. He goes in hard on black men, men should wanna work over 60 hours, get in shape, do this, do that, be the better person, make yourself valuable, become a leader, provider etc. He tells black men the truth.

Many of the men took the advice, set goals and got their life together and thank'd the dude.

Crazy thing about it is, I never heard black men attack his character or act hurt, or say that he talked rudely to them when he told them the truth about themselves.
 
Dwayne said:
Men do care. Young folks don’t.


What the fuck a 38 year old man that’s well off date a 35 year old that’s working at subway.


he might date a 21 year old that’s doing that but we all know what he would be doing it for.
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Men would do that. If they had to choose between the pretty girl at subway and Leslie Jones with the bag. They going to choose subway
 
Bow to Royalty said:
You're not married and have no desire to be. But when a man pops up and gives his opinion to women (that seek him out and ask for his advice) that want to be married, you're going all out to go after him.

Look at how he dresses, he's gay. Look, here's his HS yearbook photo with the clubs he was in. Look he's had 2 divorces. Look i found out what his jobs before this were!

That's a lot of focus for a person you don't care about speaking on a subject you don't care about. But ok...
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We are going in circles at this point.

Talking about his mannerisms and attire was just for kicks

hes a grifter

end of story
 
Forums are probably 70% antisocial, hurt, depressed individuals in real life. Forums and other forms of social medias are a form of escape for a lot. I dont say that to be funny. I say that to say their views may be a little jaded. Be careful who you argue with. You will be wasting your time.
 
loud-ninja said:
There are bums, overweight people, people with multiple kids that get chosen everyday. Men and women. Who is anyone to tell a person to aim low? Personality and intellect will get you a lot further in life then appearances.
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But thats the thing.

he’s not saying aim low
He’s “asking what are you doing to be around this 1% and why they should choose them”

Also what wrong with 40k a yr guys or not so tall dudes or why should a guy take on a ladies college debt but she don’t want to work.

he’s more about black marriage and being realistic and building than tearing down black women.

But people are judging off small clips.
Gabi has a point about the thumbnails, but he also has smiling black women too. But she feels how she feels and i respect that.

i think the man is being unfairly judged.
You can’t debate the Bible if you never read it but was only told about it.

I’m actually going to watch more of his videos to see what people are talking about.

if I’m wrong I’m wrong and I’ll admit it.
 
DOS_patos said:
But thats the thing.

he’s not saying aim low
He’s “asking what are you doing to be around this 1% and why they should choose them”

Also what wrong with 40k a yr guys or not so tall dudes or why should a guy take on a ladies college debt but she don’t want to work.

he’s more about black marriage and being realistic and building than tearing down black women.

But people are judging off small clips.
Gabi has a point about the thumbnails, but he also has smiling black women too. But she feels how she feels and i respect that.

i think the man is being unfairly judged.
You can’t debate the Bible if you never read it but was only told about it.

I’m actually going to watch more of his videos to see what people are talking about.

if I’m wrong I’m wrong and I’ll admit it.
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Exactly. He says a lot "What's wrong with a regular guy?" "Can you be with a man eating 50k/year" and stuff like that. It's the ones with baggage that think those men are below them that get harsh realities.

I think I made the comparison in here before. It's like if someone's in school to be a teacher, but they won't take a job that pays under $100k. It's not fucked up to tell them they need to change their major if they want that kind of money. But if they want to be a teacher, they need to consider jobs that pay less.

But he starts off by asking them "How much do you want to make?" If they said $40k he'd tell them they're on the right path. Not his fault everyone wants to make 6 figures, and he has to tell them people don't pay that much for teachers.
 
DOS_patos said:
But thats the thing.

he’s not saying aim low
He’s “asking what are you doing to be around this 1% and why they should choose them”

Also what wrong with 40k a yr guys or not so tall dudes or why should a guy take on a ladies college debt but she don’t want to work.

he’s more about black marriage and being realistic and building than tearing down black women.

But people are judging off small clips.
Gabi has a point about the thumbnails, but he also has smiling black women too. But she feels how she feels and i respect that.

i think the man is being unfairly judged.
You can’t debate the Bible if you never read it but was only told about it.

I’m actually going to watch more of his videos to see what people are talking about.

if I’m wrong I’m wrong and I’ll admit it.
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My response is more so from the comments i see in here. I dont follow or watch this cat so im not gonna judge or give an opinion on him.

Yes, there are delusional people. But some people really need to seek real counseling . Tearing down people rarely gets the point across to them. Im willing to bet most of his callers are mentally fragile so probably few will take the verbal bashing as motivation to "do better".

People have their preferences. People tend to figure that out as they get older. Older folks tend to want someone on their financial level because many have experienced dating people who make a lot less than them. If one person is down on their luck or got injured, they want to make sure their partner can maintain both of their lifestyles until the other is back on their feet.

Social media is not reality. That means if you go into a certain thread/site/chat group, looking for a certain group of people that have similar opinions, then that is all you will find. That is when people make generalizations . "all women this", "all men this", "most women/men". When you ask for proof, they pull post from that group. When you go outside, you realize that what they are talking about is not the norm.

These women that some of these dudes talk about, I have trouble running into. Last few dates i went on were females with careers not looking for a dude to take care of them. They just wanted a true partnership. Someone to build together with, love, support, and have some mutual interest. When some women say they dont need a man. Some mean they dont need to depend on a man for their lively hood or their emotional happiness. I applaud all of that and find it attractive. I dont think anyone should have too depend on someone for their lively hood if they can prevent it. If you dont know what makes you happy, why do you think someone else will know what makes you happy. That is when that person needs to take a step back and seek counseling from a pro.
 
loud-ninja said:
My response is more so from the comments i see in here. I dont follow or watch this cat so im not gonna judge or give an opinion on him.

Yes, there are delusional people. But some people really need to seek real counseling . Tearing down people rarely gets the point across to them. Im willing to bet most of his callers are mentally fragile so probably few will take the verbal bashing as motivation to "do better".

People have their preferences. People tend to figure that out as they get older. Older folks tend to want someone on their financial level because many have experienced dating people who make a lot less than them. If one person is down on their luck or got injured, they want to make sure their partner can maintain both of their lifestyles until the other is back on their feet.

Social media is not reality. That means if you go into a certain thread/site/chat group, looking for a certain group of people that have similar opinions, then that is all you will find. That is when people make generalizations . "all women this", "all men this", "most women/men". When you ask for proof, they pull post from that group. When you go outside, you realize that what they are talking about is not the norm.

These women that some of these dudes talk about, I have trouble running into. Last few dates i went on were females with careers not looking for a dude to take care of them. They just wanted a true partnership. Someone to build together with, love, support, and have some mutual interest. When some women say they dont need a man. Some mean they dont need to depend on a man for their lively hood or their emotional happiness. I applaud all of that and find it attractive. I dont think anyone should have too depend on someone for their lively hood if they can prevent it. If you dont know what makes you happy, why do you think someone else will know what makes you happy. That is when that person needs to take a step back and seek counseling from a pro.
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Great post
 
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