Is it too expensive for men to date in these days and times?
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Elzo69Renaissance
I dare one of you niggas to scream No Diddy!
Lol our grandparents were bagging chicks without 2 nickels to rub together
Bruh I'm so positive I could bounce back if needed be. Like I'm so thankful I don't need to, but I have no doubt in my ability to still bag a quality chick. Even in the waters.... I dunno... Maybe I'm overly confident... But this shit seems ridiculous at times
Eyerone
(iĀ·roĀ·ny)
konceptjones
The one between three and three.
For me, I'm kinda thankful that there's broads outchea from back inna day that's still fuckin with me now that I've resurfaced in Tha D. I got a few options once I lose this goddamned weight and feel like the time is right to get back out there. Everybody got grown ass kids, careers in order, stability, so they ain't looking for a meal ticket, just a companion for these later years of our lives.
That's not to say I couldn't get back out there cold either. I done already had a decent number of chicks gettin' flirty with me and they prolly would have gone a step further if it wasn't for the fact that I still have my wedding ring on my ring finger (it's actually stuck there... I gotta lose about 40lbs before I can take it off). But it's the same shit: Women around my age already done raised their kids, got careers (even if it's in the plant), and ain't looking for shit other than a "good man" to chill with. I'm guessing the older you get the fewer expectations there are when it comes to dating.
SeaSnake
OG
I really donāt think dating is that hard bro Iām in a fresh relationship and she aināt asked me for money or turned down a restaurant and we smoke weed and shit. Like itās really not hard to find somebody that likes you. But not to closing Zmeka but folks want some tv type shit be reality.
That lady gave the wrong āadviceā. If a woman wants a man to make 100K and up itās because she wants him to take care of her. There are waaay more women out there than there are of men in that tax bracket. Those men have options, and most of these entitled women will never get a man like that, just based on the numbers.
Men should get with a woman who isnāt demanding to be taken care of, and they can build together. If both of them make 50K, now itās a 100K householdā¦.
Men should get with a woman who isnāt demanding to be taken care of, and they can build together. If both of them make 50K, now itās a 100K householdā¦.
SeaSnake
OG
Bruh a lot of times this is facts I donāt think women who really mess with rich dudes even block their blessings with this energy
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
Absolutely bro, the amount of women I know..personally, that are illusions online.
I feel bad for dudes in their comments, but I get it. I get why people fall for the illusion. We all want to feel special, and whatās more special than being chosen by something thatās seems more special than you?
Most people donāt want to do the internal work to realize thereās no such thing as special, things are more about how much something is important to you.
If you really Value someone, you could be able to never have a date over 100 dollars for a year. Cause itās about the bond and valuing, that itās literally a once in a lifetime experience.
But capitalism does a wonderful job of convincing everyone itās not about the people you meet, itās about the stuff that you do. We are consumers, so what we do is, we consume earth.
This should be the biggest takeaway from this and alot of other topics that spawn from these "podcasts" and tweets
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
I don't think what she's saying is wrong. I think she's just saying it in the typical inflammatory way that everyone says everything nowadays to get the puters putin'.
She didn't really say that dudes should never take chicks on cheap dates or that dudes only deserve to have fun with chicks when they're making a lot of money. She basically just said that if you don't have any disposable income, you shouldn't really be concerned with serious dating because eventually you will have to start spending money if you want things to progress. That's true. You can start out with cheap ass coffee dates, but eventually the chick is going to want to see a movie or go to a show or eat a decent meal. If you can't afford to do any of that without hurting your pockets, you need to work on yourself first before you try to date seriously. It sounds messed up coming from this chick, but the manosphere niggas basically say the same thing.
She didn't really say that dudes should never take chicks on cheap dates or that dudes only deserve to have fun with chicks when they're making a lot of money. She basically just said that if you don't have any disposable income, you shouldn't really be concerned with serious dating because eventually you will have to start spending money if you want things to progress. That's true. You can start out with cheap ass coffee dates, but eventually the chick is going to want to see a movie or go to a show or eat a decent meal. If you can't afford to do any of that without hurting your pockets, you need to work on yourself first before you try to date seriously. It sounds messed up coming from this chick, but the manosphere niggas basically say the same thing.
Dating app requires users to have credit score of 675 or above to join
The dating app is only "for people with good credit," the company says. Users can't see others' scores, but the information is used to qualify a potential user for the app.
No brokies allowed
I mean it stops the āmy car is in the shopā replies
I mean it stops the āmy car is in the shopā replies
mike030270
Memes
How many of you not going to be able to use the app
12bitCounsel
Je Ne Sais Quoi
Credit score isnāt an indicator of broke or not itās more an indicator of financial responsibility. I think itās a fair to consider it as a possible qualification for dating in many cases.
loud-ninja
Here to point out the illogical
I take it that was you when you were in the carolinas?
OnlyBuilt4CubanLinx
Allah Sent Me
Never been to expensive to pay $40
I really think niggaz try to force bonds cuz they like how a chick looks and ignore all the shit that goes into charm and vibe.... Like just cuz a chick looks good doesn't mean y'all have to get along... Just relax and be cool till you bump into someone who organically gets along with you