Yeah, those circumstances aren't what I'm talking about. I don't disagree that there are plenty of dudes out there looking for a trans person but not wanting others to know about it.
I think you're underestimating how much the deception happens though. There are trans people who proudly declare that they don't tell the truth up front and don't feel they should. You don't think that could be problematic? I mean there was a thread on the IC where mad dudes were in there lusting over what they thought was a chick all because he/she was bent over. Then it was pandemonium when it was revealed that it was a dude. You don't think that can happen just as easily in a club when the lights are low, alcohol is in effect, and niggas are generally more lenient when it comes to looks? Come on. lol