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NoOneImportant
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You two better never date a nigga who rides a motorcycle...
Y'all would be playing with fire...
Y'all would be playing with fire...
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
Me taking my boyfriend home after the accident:
Golden
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Told y'all I ain't shit, don't act brand new
NoOneImportant
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Golden
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Fr, I wouldn't expect things to stay the same relationship wise with a SO or husband if that happened to me. I do hope they'd still support me n be some kinda companion through it but anything beyond that, minuscule probability. Just one of those things in life. What people say in good times isnt always what they do when it actually happens.
Ur job, school, whatever it is u got, ur future takes a back seat. if it doesn't fall off the agenda altogether. N if u got other dependents like ageing parents and even kids? It's immense. Long term healthcare when you aren't rich leaves much to be desired, most of it falls on next of kins to step up as caregivers. I've been a caregiver before.
If that happens early on in the union, u got 40 years of caregiving as well as struggling to feed urself n possibly others,,tryin not to let the rest of ur responsibilities fall in shambles. Caregivers got higher than average rates of compromised health themselves due to the stress of it all. It's a romance novel in theory but the reality is likely to be a lot more complicated.
Just hope it doesn't happen to y'all.
Ur job, school, whatever it is u got, ur future takes a back seat. if it doesn't fall off the agenda altogether. N if u got other dependents like ageing parents and even kids? It's immense. Long term healthcare when you aren't rich leaves much to be desired, most of it falls on next of kins to step up as caregivers. I've been a caregiver before.
If that happens early on in the union, u got 40 years of caregiving as well as struggling to feed urself n possibly others,,tryin not to let the rest of ur responsibilities fall in shambles. Caregivers got higher than average rates of compromised health themselves due to the stress of it all. It's a romance novel in theory but the reality is likely to be a lot more complicated.
Just hope it doesn't happen to y'all.
NoOneImportant
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Knock_Twice
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Boy it's a cold as world Lol
.... So I'm the only one that thought Mercy kill?
Y'all really in here saying you sticking around for this?
look... I can't... My love requires body and mind. And if he really loved me, he would want me to be happy.
That's some selfish shit to ask someone to continue a monogamous relationship with a veggie. Y'all thinking about the sex, but you forgot you gotta wash and wipe his ass, put clothes on him, wheel him around every where... If I was the one paralyzed I would set that man free and get a nurse or kill myself.
Y'all really in here saying you sticking around for this?
That's some selfish shit to ask someone to continue a monogamous relationship with a veggie. Y'all thinking about the sex, but you forgot you gotta wash and wipe his ass, put clothes on him, wheel him around every where... If I was the one paralyzed I would set that man free and get a nurse or kill myself.
And it's selfish of you to not wanna do that for your man.
What is love then?
What is love then?
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
.... So I'm the only one that thought Mercy kill?
Y'all really in here saying you sticking around for this?
look... I can't... My love requires body and mind. And if he really loved me, he would want me to be happy.
That's some selfish shit to ask someone to continue a monogamous relationship with a veggie. Y'all thinking about the sex, but you forgot you gotta wash and wipe his ass, put clothes on him, wheel him around every where... If I was the one paralyzed I would set that man free and get a nurse or kill myself.
Right! That's some hard shit to do day in and day out.
You and that nigga relationship could be the best shit ever. He took care of you, the whole nine and the minute he suffers a tragedy, you dip. If that ain't selfish, then I don't know what is.
Conditional for me, I guess.
I can still have the feelings for a person that I've always had, but if he can't reciprocate that love in more than a verbal fashion than what good can come from it? Either I stay with him and cheat and dedicate my life to taking care of him or he does the noble thing and let me go.