Pachá12
Wave Intentions
no prob fam
basically, i disagreed with what you said about making someone as happy as you can w/o compromising yourself
i think thats the wrong approach. It is not your responsibility for your mate's happiness. Happiness is only a feeling. What happens if you are having a bad day and your mate looks to you as the source of their happiness? What does that look like to them? How do they respond?
its too much pressure to be placed on someone. I dont think there is anything wrong with having a feeling of happiness when ya'll do stuff together and hang out, but to be so dependent on someone to provide happiness is a disaster waiting to happen.
I see what you're saying. But that's why I said i always thought it to be a light hearted saying.
Emotional dependency, I believe, would be one compromising themselves. At the same time, if you're in a relationship, the name of the game is to be happy and be a source of happiness. There should be set limits in for both involved and each should use discernment if the situation isn't putting the in the best position to get the most out of their relationship.