Guy says he’s done with the finesse? Y’all agree with this?

[Duwop]

I do think niggaz need to buy ass more freely instead of complaining about dating.

If all you tryna do is fuck.... Go buy it

It's lots of dudes who enjoy spending money in the company of people they like chilling with.

If that's not your lane..... Cool..... Go buy ass.

But if I (hypothetically) don't mind dropping dough on chilling and getting to know a woman I find interesting and attractive...... Then I don't mind it. It's not a finesse. I actually like showing women a nice time. I'm the long run, I've bumped into plenty of women I didn't fuck, but they had a great time hanging out with when I was single.

I've even gotten in low key trouble cuz some of them still wanna hang cuz they remember having fun with me. Like that's a thing for some guys.... They like showing women a nice time.

If that's not you, and you just wanna fuck and fuck only..... Go buy it..... Buy it.... Be happy. That's your lane. Embrace it.

 

[konceptjones]

Why you still thinking about me?.
That was a week ago.....short term memory will make you less cringe bruh.... Get me off your mind

 

[Marc123]

"I dont pay a broad to fuck, i pay her to leave."

 

[BrotherZ]

Speaking with the wife about this and I just remembered something.

If yo game ain't on Pete Davidson level, don't even brag about it.

Homie worth considerably less than Kanye was when he got Kim and yet here he is with someone still out of most niggas league.

 

[Tayboo]

Dude needs take a break from the dating apps...

 

[deadeye]

Lmaoooo at retired from pussy and women.

Im scared to ask retired to what?

 

[Mister B. M. Ed.]

And this is why I’m glad I’m married.

 

[shutupGabi]

Man whatever happened to dating being fun and not fuckin ppl til you know em?




Also, goin dutch is not a date.

 

[BrotherZ]

Man whatever happened to dating being fun and not fuckin ppl til you know em?




Also, goin dutch is not a date.

how is going dutch not a date? then who is expected to pay?

 

[shutupGabi]

how is going dutch not a date? then who is expected to pay?

Friends go dutch. If there's a chance we fuckin then we ain't friends.

Whoever asks is who pays, but I think the man should pay on first dates. That's just me tho.

 

[AP3.0]

Friends go dutch. If there's a chance we fuckin then we ain't friends.

Whoever asks is who pays, but I think the man should pay on first dates. That's just me tho.

This not a gotcha moment or anything but I'm genuinely curious why. I'm not trying to spark a debate on how you feel. I'm just interested in why you feel this

 

[BrotherZ]

Friends go dutch. If there's a chance we fuckin then we ain't friends.

Whoever asks is who pays, but I think the man should pay on first dates. That's just me tho.

Like dude in the video said, if sex not involved I don't see why I'm paying for both of us. I think his attitude was that if all a woman wants to do is have a good time sans sex, she shouldn't expect a man to pay for her.

 

[shutupGabi]

This not a gotcha moment or anything but I'm genuinely curious why. I'm not trying to spark a debate on how you feel. I'm just interested in why you feel this

I feel safer/more secure when the man sets the tone first. It's just easier if he gets it out the way and pays so we don't have that awkward looking at the bill, we fighting over it or pulling out calculators tryna figure out who ordered what moment.

It's also fine if we do more than one thing...he get the movie tickets and I'll get snacks or something like that.

I have no problem paying for dates. Especially after the first one goes smooth.

 

[AP3.0]

I feel safer/more secure when the man sets the tone first. It's just easier if he gets it out the way and pays so we don't have that awkward looking at the bill, we fighting over it or pulling out calculators tryna figure out who ordered what moment.

It's also fine if we do more than one thing...he get the movie tickets and I'll get snacks or something like that.

I have no problem paying for dates. Especially after the first one goes smooth.

TY for your perspective

 

[shutupGabi]

Like dude in the video said, if sex not involved I don't see why I'm paying for both of us. I think his attitude was that if all a woman wants to do is have a good time sans sex, she shouldn't expect a man to pay for her.

Man miss me with all that. Spending money is apart of dating. If a woman likes you, yall are gonna have sex at some point. Where dude is going wrong is hes expecting 'I like you' treatment from a first introduction - one that he fucked up out the gate lol. If you aint got $40-50 to hit the movies, the bar, the Mexican restaurant, etc dont date.

And no im not implying he should be the only one to spend money.

 

[BrotherZ]

Man miss me with all that. Spending money is apart of dating. If a woman likes you, yall are gonna have sex at some point. If you aint got $40-50 to hit the movies, the bar, the Mexican restaurant, etc dont date.

And no im not implying he should be the only one to spend money.

this the issue. Personally I don't mind paying on the lower end but the implication of the video is that ol'boy was trying to avoid a 100$ date with the woman in the pic.

lets not pretend some women just use the dating process as means of balling on some else dime.

I'm just saying when you trying to get to know someone, why the bill gotta be on one party?

 

[shutupGabi]

this the issue. Personally I don't mind paying on the lower end but the implication of the video is that ol'boy was trying to avoid a 100$ date with the woman in the pic.

lets not pretend some women just use the dating process as means of balling on some else dime.

I'm just saying when you trying to get to know someone, why the bill gotta be on one party?

Ok but where did that come from? All homegirl said was how are you and bruh launched into this dissertation. If she was ever gon fuck him, she ain't now.

 

[BrotherZ]

Ok but where did that come from? All homegirl said was how are you and bruh launched into this dissertation. If she was ever gon fuck him, she ain't now.

Just giving my view on why he may have said it.

If a man being upfront about his expectations is enough to turn her or any woman away, then they shouldn't go out to anyway.

He said that as respectfully as he could imo.

 

[Duwop]

Niggaz sexually frustrated, pressed, and impatient.

Shit not always gonna be instant gratification.

Make a good impression, sometimes that shit comes back around. You be chilling in the house but thinking about nuffin, and get a random message like "want some company?"

 

[shutupGabi]

Just giving my view on why he may have said it.

If a man being upfront about his expectations is enough to turn her or any woman away, then they shouldn't go out to anyway.

He said that as respectfully as he could imo.

Now you know there was a better way to set that tone man lol. I've never met you and you already telling me what some other chick you dated did to you before we even saying hello? Cmon bruh. Starting off negative aint gon get you nowhere. That's a person not a kiosk.