Im saying if you're going to seek changed behavior, then you need to take into account how the people you want to change will react to your message. If you're not... why talk?
And like I said. Time and energy are finite. There isn't enough of either to address everything. So might as well use it on the bigger issues. If your roof is leaking, and your house needs to be power washed you don't flip a coin, or prioritize power washing. You fix your roof ASAP, and power wash when you have nothing else to do.