I got time to kill and not that this is important. But I thought of a perfect example, yes I think a lot in my spare time..often about nothin
So my wife was raised by her mother and her step father. My wife has a way of looking at mother's. What she believes a mother should be and how a mother should act.
And then there's my mother...often times my mother does stuff that you wouldn't if you have a certain idea of what mothers should be. You wouldn't believe if I tell u that this is what she's doing.
So often times my mother does shit and I tell my wife. Don't fall for that, she's doing this, this, this, that.
My wife goes, your so cynical and don't trust people. Your mother wouldn't do that.
And then all the chips fall and it's what I said it was.
And she'll go, why would she do that?
Like she can't fathom that just because someone is my mother..that they arent also a person that would use the relationship as a mother to finesse shit.
And I tell her all the time..ur thinking about what u think a mother is...not what my mother is. I know who my mother is so when I tell u it's something, u need to stop going to ur life Bank and applying ur logic...ur logic comes from a place where my life and things that surround it don't exist