i know i have a rep here or whatever lol
but irl, im so fuckin chill brah
like to my detriment. As long as I was just going with the flow, everything was cool. Then when i realized how she was manipulating shit and always trying to make me feel like shit was my fault, i began to see who she truly was. A person that doesnt accept their role in anything and who is constantly being the victim in every situation.
I'll share an ex...once we were in counseling and im talking and i said something to the effect of "i dont like when im talking and you cut me off"...i started saying something immediately after that, and , yep...you guessed it...she cut me off
i had a pen in my hand to jot down notes this particular day and I slammed it on the ground in frustration and told her "YOU JUST DID IT". She couldn't be quiet for 30 secs to allow me to express how the things she was doing in the relationship impacted me.
shit like this just added up over time
everything i did was just under a microscope. She one of those people that if you dont do something one time, then she'll speak in hyperbole and say shit like "you never do this...or you always do that" instead of focusing on that one instance